I guess I just wanna say hi to all the friends I used to have on here,

Snar

I guess I just wanna say hi to all the friends I used to have on here,

I wonder if you remember me? Life’s pretty different for me now, without my girlfriend. My whole help life was based around the cycle of depression she caused me. Its why I was on here so much, to escape…to get help…to hide. Im pretty busy these days. I try and work hard at school, fail, generally…spent some time on the ning sites…thought been slowing down on that too. I guess tonight I was in a thoughtful mood and decided to pay homage to this place. Its starting to feel like a bit of a ghost town when it comes to all my old help friends, i feel like a lot of them have passed onto to bigger shinier new sites, or smaller cozier ones perhaps. Or perhaps they’ve forgotten me. I never stood out much here.

Its weird, to have my own world again…not sure what to make of it…oftentimes It feels a bit like dreaming. Being without someone who was a part of me, its just…a totally disembodying experience. I’m not depressed, I get lonely sometimes…sometimes I don’t know what to do with myself but..no, not depressed.

Anyways, hello to you all, thankyou for helping me through the roughest year and a half of my life, what can I say…I mean…I don’t know if it was a bad or a good thing, but all journeys of life come partially unbidden…and they all shape us. So I cant regret it.

Good-night people, if any of you are around or remember me enough to say hello. I’m exhausted, I must make no sense…sometimes I just need to talk and hear people listen. I don’t know how to be alone with my thoughts anymore.

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Penguin B☺y Brian 3 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (0 minutes after post)

i remember you… hi

Help me with: But One Year Ago.

Snar invited 22 users to read this post 9 months, 2 weeks ago.

Help me with: Finally,

Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

hey :)

Help me with: Finally,

Tal.* 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

im sorry im sure i wasnt on when u wer here but id like to say hi anyway =)

Help me with: birthday pressie help.

chunkymove 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

nice bit of poetry at the end there.

Year, I saw the pic pop up on the front page and thought “is that snar?”

Help me with: Romance is not the solution.

Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Tal.* wrote:
im sorry im sure i wasnt on when u wer here but id like to say hi anyway =)

Hello tal, thanks for just dropping by to say hi…making a connection is the most brilliant and beautiful thing two humans can do for one another. So truly, thankyou.

chunkymove wrote:
nice bit of poetry at the end there.

Year, I saw the pic pop up on the front page and thought “is that snar?”

Haha so you do remember me then? I’m honoured. Thanks, i’m not sure it was poetry…as a poet my musing tend to come out that way though :)

Help me with: Finally,

S 49 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Of course I remember you Snar, how could I forget? lol

Help me with: Doing my best to clean up

Tal.* 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

happy to say hi =D how are you these days

Help me with: birthday pressie help.

Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Hahah, well then hello my friend samm :).

Tal, I am…*chuckles*…I dont know.

Help me with: Finally,

Tal.* 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

hehe what was that sneaky laugh spose to mean ;)

Help me with: birthday pressie help.

Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

haha its my trademark, its ambiguity is what gives me a false sense of depth >.>

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Help me with: Finally,

Tal.* 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

lol tahts a cool trade mark =D

Help me with: birthday pressie help.

☆ 368 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Snnnaarr!!! i’m sorry you are feeling down. Tomorrow is a new day my friend.
The girlfriend or anyone would come and go and you would meet new friends along the way but you know you got a friend in me. And in all of us here. Let me know if ya need to talk.

Help me with: Anyone?

seas light 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Hi, I do remember you! Welcome back. Glad to see you have moved on for the better. :)

Help me with: A beautiful song by an amazing talent, sadly forever missed…[YouTube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?

Max 193 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Hey big guy:) Max didn’t forget and you stood out plenty:) I’m on the edge of my seat as your real big day is now…slow and stead wins the race my friend:) You’ll be who you need to be and that’s just fantastic:) Later:)

Help me with: If you have trouble running, walking will do:)

Indigo_Rain 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Ah, if it isn’t snar.

Course I remember you, silly. I mean, I should, right? So you remember meh? *doubts it*

Anyway, los writing skillz are still topnotch, you know that, right?

Help me with: Actually, Invisible

Good ole boy 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (6 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Snar, you’re 1 in a million. Hope you are doing all right.

Help me with: I’ve been trying to discover the name of a song but so far, my endeavor has been to no avail.

ƒ(x)=healberry³ 3 #
Bellflower, CA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (7 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Hiya Snar! :)

It’s great to know that you’re past the rough times. As always, I will be here to talk to you when you wish.

Help me with: I’m ambivalent about breaking up [input needed].

Fuzzy Pepper 66 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (7 hours, 36 minutes after post)

Snar….

One of my very best cyber buddies!!!!

Come to think of it, I haven’t seen you around anywhere for a few days….how are you doing??

Snar, just so you know, you are one of my favorite people to talk to online……..AND to listen to (you write so well!)

I hope you are feeling better. Life is full of sad times; happy times; etc…..but without the sad times, you would never have the rainbows of the happy times. Not to mention, sad times help you build character and become a stronger person.

Snar, you DO have character; and you do seem to be a strong person. I wish you the best and hope to talk to you again soon :)

Help me with: Oxycontin: I just read a post about it; and I’m wondering…

Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 42 minutes after post)

* miss lilies wrote:
Snnnaarr!!! i’m sorry you are feeling down. Tomorrow is a new day my friend.
The girlfriend or anyone would come and go and you would meet new friends along the way but you know you got a friend in me. And in all of us here. Let me know if ya need to talk.

Awww lillies thanks :D :D :D

seas light wrote:
Hi, I do remember you! Welcome back. Glad to see you have moved on for the better. :)

I remember you too seas, glad to see your still around :D

Max wrote:
Hey big guy:) Max didn’t forget and you stood out plenty:) I’m on the edge of my seat as your real big day is now…slow and stead wins the race my friend:) You’ll be who you need to be and that’s just fantastic:) Later:)

Aww max, thanks so much man…that means a lot.

Indigo_Rain wrote:
Ah, if it isn’t snar.

Course I remember you, silly. I mean, I should, right? So you remember meh? *doubts it*

Anyway, los writing skillz are still topnotch, you know that, right?

Do I remember you? Course I do! I was actually sad we kinda fell outta talking. Maybe we can again :) Thankyou for the compliment too!!!

healberry wrote:
Hiya Snar! :)

It’s great to know that you’re past the rough times. As always, I will be here to talk to you when you wish.

Thankyou, your the best :D

JellyBelly wrote:
Snar….

One of my very best cyber buddies!!!!

Come to think of it, I haven’t seen you around anywhere for a few days….how are you doing??

Snar, just so you know, you are one of my favorite people to talk to online……..AND to listen to (you write so well!)

I hope you are feeling better. Life is full of sad times; happy times; etc…..but without the sad times, you would never have the rainbows of the happy times. Not to mention, sad times help you build character and become a stronger person.

Snar, you DO have character; and you do seem to be a strong person. I wish you the best and hope to talk to you again soon :)

Jelly!!!! :D yer one of my faves too, we just rock plain and simple. Thanks for the vote of confidence and hopefully I’ll be puttering around luminosity soon, I just havent been for some reason…not sure…

[quote * miss lilies]Snnnaarr!!! i'm sorry you are feeling down. Tomorrow is a new day my friend. 
The girlfriend or anyone would come and go and you would meet new friends along the way but you know you got a friend in me. And in all of us here. Let me know if ya need to talk.[/quote]

Awww lillies thanks :D :D :D

[quote seas light]Hi, I do remember you! Welcome back. Glad to see you have moved on for the better. :)[/quote]

I remember you too seas, glad to see your still around :D

[quote Max]Hey big guy:) Max didn't forget and you stood out plenty:) I'm on the edge of my seat as your real big day is now...slow and stead wins the race my friend:) You'll be who you need to be and that's just fantastic:) Later:)[/quote]

Aww max, thanks so much man...that means a lot.

[quote Indigo_Rain]Ah, if it isn't snar.

Course I remember you, silly. I mean, I should, right? So you remember meh? *doubts it*

Anyway, los writing skillz are still topnotch, you know that, right?[/quote]

Do I remember you? Course I do! I was actually sad we kinda fell outta talking. Maybe we can again :) Thankyou for the compliment too!!!

[quote healberry]Hiya Snar! :)

It's great to know that you're past the rough times. As always, I will be here to talk to you when you wish.[/quote]

Thankyou, your the best :D

[quote JellyBelly]Snar....

One of my very best cyber buddies!!!!

Come to think of it, I haven't seen you around anywhere for a few days....how are you doing??

Snar, just so you know, you are one of my favorite people to talk to online........AND to listen to (you write so well!)

I hope you are feeling better.  Life is full of sad times; happy times; etc.....but without the sad times, you would never have the rainbows of the happy times.  Not to mention, sad times help you build character and become a stronger person.

Snar, you DO have character; and you do seem to be a strong person.  I wish you the best and hope to talk to you again soon :)[/quote]

Jelly!!!! :D yer one of my faves too, we just rock plain and simple. Thanks for the vote of confidence and hopefully I'll be puttering around luminosity soon, I just havent been for some reason...not sure...

Help me with: Finally,

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gamerkc 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 9 minutes after post)

I never did forget you Snar, hey there. :)

I can also relate to what you’re going through, how you need someone to be there. I’m her for you, and so is the entire site. I’m glad you’re doing alright with your life, so just hang in there and I’m sure it’ll just keep getting better.

We’re always here for you, no matter where life takes you.

BaconByAnyOtherName 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (17 hours, 15 minutes after post)

nobody can forget teh snar.

- The once and future Bacon

Help me with: The Big Time.

Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (17 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Thanks gamerkc! Jeesus, fill like a whole different era back when I was on help with you, same with bacon. But I remember both of yah! Kinda was on hiatus there, maybe I can come back.

Help me with: Finally,

____________________ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (19 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Hey Snar, what’s up man? ‘Course I remember you dude. Glad to hear that you’re doing okay at least. Good to see you back around.

Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (21 hours, 35 minutes after post)

☼₦ḭṤă☼ wrote:
Hey Snar, what’s up man? ‘Course I remember you dude. Glad to hear that you’re doing okay at least. Good to see you back around.

Hey nisa, i remember you too *smiles*. Nice to see you too.

Help me with: Finally,

gamerkc 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Snar wrote:
Thanks gamerkc! Jeesus, fill like a whole different era back when I was on help with you, same with bacon. But I remember both of yah! Kinda was on hiatus there, maybe I can come back.

Please do, it’d make Help a lot more interesting with you around. :D

Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

Alright, I’ll
see what i can do :)

Help me with: Finally,

gamerkc 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

Sweet deal :D

Sans 57 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 6 hours after post)

You rock, Snar. Thanks for being here.

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