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If your good friends with her it useally makes it easier. Just ask her if she wants to be more than just frieds and make sure that if she sais no that you tel her still want to be friends with her.
Ask her if she wants to see a movie sometime. Pretty much as simple as that. If she says yes and it ends up being more than friendship, then nice job. If she says yes but doesn’t want to be more than friends, then you’ve still got your best friend. Or she could say no but at that point its not like she’s just going to tell you your not her friend anymore.
Hey best friend there is a great movie playing tonight so would you like to go see it with me and maybe grab a bite to eat while we are at it?
Tell her your friendship has grown into something more and ask her if she is attracted to you. If she says yes it’s in the bag, if she says no she may not want to be friends anymore. Usually girls who are your friend also like you in other ways and are too shy to say anything.
i wish it was that simple, but thanks anyway.
this is actually great advice.
If she knows you well than she knows that you are a good guy. Girls useally care more about personallities than looks anyway. If your really a good guy ill give you %75 chance.
I’d ask her like Khyron said, (or to a school dance, or for a walk, or hanging out at the mall, or whatever) then, when it’s over, give her a hug. After, look into her eyes after and tell her that your really glad that she said yes to hanging with you. Watch for her reaction. If she smiles big, then you will know that she probably likes you too. Ask her to hang out the next week, doing the same thing, or something different. If it goes well, kiss her cheek and give her a hug. Wait for a reaction. If it’s good tell her that you think about her all the time, tell her how you feel. Ask know how she feels about you.
i like that!
ther’s only one problem though, i only see her once a week for karate.
Ask her at karate if she wants to go to a school dance.
that’s okay find out what movie is coming out a week in advance and then ask her if she would be interested in getting together for that movie next week
or whatever else you like to do
really the movies is all i could do because we live kinda far away from each other and there isnt much to do where either of us live.
well the movies always worked as a good date for me so ask her to a movie
good luck with it too :-)
hi there best friend. Why don’t you try asking her to one of your weekly nambla meetings?
hey best friend i like you do you feel the same way “yes” then its all you “”no” DO NOT SAY its no big deal or you were joking or anything like that it might break up your friendship just say something subtle like oh well still friends.
I need help too. The girl I like is my best friend too and im almost certain she will say no if I ask her out. Wat should I do?
Ask anyway. I hated the feeling of knowing that a guy MIGHT ask me out and then NOT ask me. It was WAY more awkward that way. Besides, you’ll never know the answer unless you try.
She might prefer to stay friends, but that’s ok. You might be sad, but then you should realise that she feels so strongly about your friendship that she doesn’t want to do ANYTHING that might POTENTIALLY ruin it.
I’ve been in that situation before. I told the guy the truth and although it did hurt, we remained friends. I worried that if we broke up, that he wouldn’t be able to be my friend anymore. I didn’t want that. I really NEEDED his friendship at the time.
So, if she does say no, it could be just a no for now. It doesn’t mean that she’ll never want to date you. Stay strong, and by all means, ask. She might very well say yes. Good Luck!
Me and the guy i like are besties and i really like hime but to shy to ask.i know who ever is gona answer my question is gonna say like “ask if he likes you” or “ask them out” but the truth is i am way to shy to do that, please help i am desperate
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Don’t waste your time being shy. I NOW know of about 4 or 5 guys that I REALLLLLY liked who were too shy/worried to ask me out. I REALLLLY wanted to date them, but I was too shy too. I never told them and they never told me. We could have gone out and had a lot of fun. We could have made a lot of fun memories. No regrets. Go and do it. If you don’t, you may find out in 15 yrs that she really wanted to date you too. You’re only young once. You might as well enjoy it.
Me and the girl i want to ask out are best friends i mean BEST. And i think she may like me and i really like her
She was the first person nice to me at school
now 2 years have passed and we can minipulate each other
we always sit together at lunch
there are always rumors that were going out
I really want to date her but it may ruin our friendship!!!
Ask her what she thinks of stopping the rumours. If she asks “How can we do that?” Say, “Well, I really like you. I hope that you like me too. We hang out all of the time. If we date, they will no longer be rumour. They will be fact. What do you think of this plan? Will you go out with me?”
iloveouy will you go out with me?
just out of the blue email or txt her and say ie have feelings for you.
ie noe how iet feels iem in LOVE with my best friend he knows but idont think he likes me back :(
I DON’T suggest that you text or email any of this. It will make both of you extremely nervous until you meet up again.
my best advice to you is whatever you do, dont get married.
aha this is such good info i read it all. im in the exact same problem… my best friend is so sexy and i just want to date her i have been there for her every time she has been upset or needed advice and im sick of people breaking her heart because i know i can do soo much better. but after reading everyones ideas/tips it has really helped. i have started to like her but im not sure if she does back… im just going to go ahead and use one of the ideas ^^^ :)
I am having a similar problem. This girl I like has been friends with me for around 2 years. There was also this incident that turned into an argument for a while. Everything is fine now, and I really would like to be more than friends with her. Is there any hope?
If she’s your best friend, I’d definately ask. The worst she could sayy is no. The best could work out wonderfully well for you. :)
Me and my best friend have been friends for a while. There was an incident at a school dance and ever since people have been asking me if we’re going out. I really like her and I wis we were. I just don’t want to ruin our friendship. Any advice?
I like this girl named ashley and ive known he since SECOND grade and i like her but i dont think she likes me.There is a dance coming up and i want to ask her if she is going and if maybe she wants to meet me there.I sat with her in science and i kinda think she likes me but im not sure.Willl you plz give me advice.I like her but if i ask her out i know it will ruin our friendship for a fact.But i wanna just say “Are you going to the dance??”And if she says yes then ill say “I guess ill see ya there then huh?”But there is only one problem.All my friends will be there HELP ME OUT PLZ D:
Your way sounds good.
Are you going to the dance?
Are you meeting anybody?
Neither am I, but I’d like to. Want to meet me there?
Ok thanks you really helped me.I like her and i dont want to lose our friendship :D
:) It’ll be awkward at first. Just smile and offer to buy her a pop or snack. It’ll keep her mind focused on the conversation, rather than your nerves.
Thx your kinda a life saver ill look my best :)
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