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am i asking too much?

24/m full time work, full time student, father of a 4 year old.. almost no time left, yet i want love too. am i asking too much? I find a girl thats 10 of 10 like once a year maybe? .. yet i dont want to settle for someone less, and usually she’s taken. I just want to give up. What do I do?

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glassrose10 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

You aren’t asking for too much. You are putting your needs in the world and there is nothing wrong with that.

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Dr.Awesome McCool offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

your only 24, once you’ve finished studying im sure you’ll have plenty of time to find a good woman, your making a good go of life, a good dad and keeping a steady job. perfect marriage material tbh. you’ll find someone soon enough.

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Felicity offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

whatever you do ,dont give up.maybe a break is in order b/c thats when you least expect it to come along

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beatricegalant offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

No, you are not asking too much. Girls your age won’t want to settle with a guy who has a child, they think you are looking for a wife-substitute. You are too busy too, girls might think you are looking for a babysitter type to help you out. Studying and working full time, you won’t have time for your own son yet, let along to have a relationship. Who is looking after your son while studying and working? Don’t give up though, one day you will find someone who would love you and your son. What about the mother of your son? How close are you guys? That could be the other reason why girls are turned down.

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