friend help: I want to know if my best friend has feelings for me. - Help.com



This post left anonymously

I want to know if my best friend has feelings for me.

I like her a lot but am not sure if she likes me back. She touches me alot and tries to hold my hand basically whenever our hands touch, i.e. a high-five or playing around. I dont want to make things awkward between us, and there have been a lot of things she’s said that has made me think that she doesn’t like me. But the other day our group was watching a movie and we lie down enxt to each other. Occasionally she would rest her head on my shoulder and stay there. So should I assume things based on how shes touching me? Or more about what shes saying out loud? I really like her, and I just keep getting these vibes that she likes me back, but I could be completly wrong and I dont wanna ruin anything. What do you guys think?

This open post was written 9 months, 1 week ago | V/U/S: 306, 6, 4 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post


Reciprocity (0) Reciprocation Failure -- The poster has NOT helped anyone else yet!

Since writing this post Anonymous may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days.

Post Tags (2)

Replies (6)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen
Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

Anonymous #
9 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

sometimes actions speak louder than words, but i also know alot of girls who once they’ve become really comfortable with a guy they get more touchy feely. Maybe you should just do the whole hint hint nudge nudge thing and if she doesnt then just act like it was a joke. sorry i dont have better advice but when it comes to friendships, you dont want to lose them

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Jaylor offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

I think that she likes you, but she feels the same way that you do.
How you don’t want to make things awkward between you guys.

But honestly what’s wrong with what you have now?
You get to spend time with her right.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: PLEASE HELP ME!
sundaytaylo offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

But i like her, haha. Even if we spend time together it’ll always be on my mind and its driving me crazy. I stay up at night just thinking about her. Sure hanging out is fun and we chill, but now that I like her I feel like I want something else to happen.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
khyron32 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

No pain no gain
or
if you don’t try you’ll never succeed

so basically what I am saying is ask her
or
give her a quick little kiss and hug and see what she does

but if you don’t try anything you’ll never know what could be :-)
good luck

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Tal.* offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

lol well think about it this way. you either tell her and ask her how she feels. if she doesnt feel the same way you could possibly lose your friendship from awkwardness orrr she might feel the same way and you too can be together. your second option is not telling her. but this means that you’ll always be wondering what she would have said and you might regret it. so which risk would you rather take, losing or as a friend or not acting on the chance to be more than that when she felt the same

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: birthday pressie help.
Jules22871 offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 24 minutes after post)

The only real way is to just ask her. Lots of people are the touchy feely type and they don’t mean anything by putting their head on your shoulder so the best thing you can do is just ask her.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.