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I need some ways to help me find myself again.

I lost myself somewhere between losing my best friends and starting to act like a jerk to the people I care about. Every time I try to stop, I feel hopeless.

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wednesday offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

find better friends. there are other people like you out there. dont fret.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

thanks. more suggestions?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

your title cought my eye. I find myself looking for a significant other. someone to take care of me really. Maybe finding someone like that could help you aswell.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

you’re right. I feel like thats what i’m missing. thanks

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Ya, I kinda got in a similar situation when I lost my best friend… How’d you lose your best friend?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (30 minutes after post)

I just kinda isolated myself from her. (btw, I’m a guy.) we just kinda grew apart in a matter of months

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (34 minutes after post)

Ya, almost same exact thing here. I’m a guy, she was a girl, and when we were growing up we sorda started slowly becoming a little more distant from each other. And then she went to a different school for middle school, so I guess it was a little more forced, but since then I haven’t talked to her in years. And I miss her so much now… I didn’t think that way before but I’ve never found anyone quiet like her…

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (36 minutes after post)

how old are you? You don’t have to answer, but there different advice for different ages it seems

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Lol…Freshman in highschool…

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (52 minutes after post)

Nice, same here…

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An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (2 months after post)

It is always good to talk to someone. Whether it is on here or a professional. It sounds like a anger problem that if you dont take cae of will get worse. Take it from someone who knows!

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (8 months, 1 week after post)

You know what you wrote really touches home. I am so lost right now. I have been retired from the N.Y.C. fire dept. for 3 yrs. Don’t do any of the same things I used to do with the guys on the job..Been divorced 2x since 9/11 and I’m 35 wit health problems with are just bad enough that prevent me from doing firefighting , or any thing else because of all the meds. I don’t hang out with alot of my old friends because we just became disconeccted and I am finding it hard to make new ones,, so anyone close to me like my mother , brother ,etc,, I find that I am taking my frustrations out on them because I am the one that is lonely… anyway rattled on enough

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