My Pappy (grandpa) just got diagnosed with cancer. He’s my whole world and he’s been a better parent to me than anyone ever has. I’m supposed to go see him today for the first time since he was diagnosed and everyone in the family has told me that I am not allowed to cry in front of him because he couldn’t handle it if I were to cry. If it were ayone else, then he would be ok, but me and him are closer than anyone and anything I say or do will affect him severely…
I just don’t know if I can handle this.
I just watched my boyfriends grandpa die of cancer 3 weeks ago and now my grandpa gets the stupid disease. I hate this..
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Unfortunately cancer is a very sad disease. I want you to know that I feel for you in this time of sorrow. Don’t let the pain of losing your grandpa affect the time that you do have with him. I know it’s hard but if you try really hard, I’m sure you can think of the happy memories you’ve had with him. There will be a time for tears… but for as long as you have him, be happy with him.
Even if you cry, he will understand. I know your family said not to, but he’ll understand. My gram passed away and her and I were closer than anyone, it’ll be okay, plus he has time left, just be there for him. =) It’ll hurt, but you’ll grow from it.
Just give him a hug and a smile… and talk to him, about the things you always talk about, about what you’ve been going through, about how everthing’s gonna be ok.
Big love from me and all of us here to you, hope your grandpa gets better…
I could lose every member of my family other than him and be ok eventually. As long as I have him, I’m ok. But if I lose him, I really don’t think I can deal with it. I mean, I’ll have to eventually, but I am not strong enough to go through this..
The thing is that you are strong enough to go through this, you just seem to think otherwise, but based on what you just said, you can get through this. Your Grandpa loves you no matter what and you just have to remember that. It will be hard, but with your families love and support, you can get through it together
well it can happen to anyone, if it isnt too bad then he can get treatment. but if it comes to the worst dont you think he would want you to carry on with life and be happy. yes it is hard to lose a friend or family member but it will happen in the end. spend as much time as you can to get the most out of the ime you have with him.
i give you the best luck of him coming through it and you will be fine.
good luck
My grandpa past away because of cancer 10 years ago, too. but in my case, i couldn’t see him right before he died. i’m not sure if he can still do surgery to get rid of cancer. if he cannot, you should be with him and talk to him as much as possible. He’ll be just happy to be with you no matter how you react. he loves you. i know it’s very hard to see him like that. i hope you’ll be ok.
Depending on which type of cancer it is sweetheart its not definite that he will die.
As for your family putting stipulations on how you should behave before him ignore them. Hes your pappy and you should be left in peace and private to talk to him.
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thank you to everyone.
I know that I need to be strong for him and I’m going to try.
I just talked to my mom and the cancer originated in his bones…that’s really all I know right now. My family has known since last Thursday but he told them that he didn’t want me to know. Then my mom conviced him that I needed to know but he told her that she had to be the one to tell me. She called me last night when I was on my way home from work and I almost went off the road. When I got in the driveway, I stayed there for an hour and cried. It literally broke my heart. When I got inside, I went straight to bed and I got about an hour of sleep.
This is what happened when he was diagnosed.
If something happens to him, I just know it will be worse.
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We don’t know how much we can that, yet you may be surprised. The thing is, you have to move on. He’ll want that, you have to be happy for you and the one you love. They’ll live through you.