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rest in peace thomas

I remmeber my senior year in High school.
there was this girl named Kim in my history class..she was very pretty and nice and funny..she looked to have a great future..
we talked usually some every day in class and she usually sit behind me..

then one day she just wasnt there…everyone assumed she was sick or something…that is…until our teacher had told us she had passed away the night before on the way home from watching some wrestling matches at our school…

i remember how weird it felt… Rip Kim

sileo in pacis eternus.

Last year a girl my age got bucked off of a horse, landed on her head, and snapped her neck. The horse ended up kicking her in the head while she was unconscious, and she went into a coma. She died the next week. I hadnt ever even heard of her until i heard she died, and the whole story from one of her friends later, but I still couldnt shake the feeling like someone i had known forever had died.

nex affero sapientia in victus

if only we could all live forever here and now.

instead we have to count on people learning about god and deciding to follow him and believe that his son died on a cross without proof.

im a christian, i know that this is true from the experiences in my life,

but is it possible that everyone could even be reached with the truth? we are presented lies in the media, and from the world daily. how are we supposed to be able to prove to these people that god is the answer before something bad happens and they die like this?

it puzzles me to no end. i cant see a way to tell people “wake up, this is the truth. your living in sin, and unless i can convince you, without any physical proof that god is real and you need to follow him, your going to hell.”

how can we even face these odds? so many religions, they cannot know what is true unless we can show every one of them what we know, but how can we do that?

grrr…

and then when people die that dont know christ as their savior… ..

well, heres my rant. god, where are you now when these people need you? how can i tell them? how can i tell them the truth, and let them know it as the truth. i cant even reach one person. how can we reach the world?

oh my god, I’m sooooo sorry. but this is really cool that you’re honoring his name like this. so many people care about people that they don’t know. they never know why, but I guess it’s just because we know how it feels, even if we haven’t lost someone. but there was a reason for his death. every death has a reason. again, very sorry for your loss :( I wish you the best of luck, and hope that thomas is having a good time up in heaven, probably doing something like playing fooseball with some of the other angels, or maybe he’s just sitting relaxing, watching this post right now :)

i want to bite my tongue.. but i cannot.

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not to go off topic, great honoring your friend.

but you guys do know that people and angels are 2 entirely diffrent things right?

people don’t become angels when they die…

Anonymous wrote:
i want to bite my tongue.. but i cannot.

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not to go off topic, great honoring your friend.

but you guys do know that people and angels are 2 entirely diffrent things right?

people don’t become angels when they die…

nope. i read the bible.

ah

that’s not as exciting as a dead user on help.com. you sould’ve said “yup. i’m dead” it would’ve been much more exciting haha

i could be an angel though. maybe. theres a verse that says they are among people

you could be talking to a scarily powerful being of great power and wisdom.

true…..very true….as a matter of fact, who knows? I could be talking to God himself =O

itd be nice if you were. hmm… if i was then i could say that you have 4 fingers and because i couldn’t lie… you instantly would have 4 fingers…

so we can test it this way.

okay, here goes: you have…

10 fingers.

so, am i god?

OMG!!!! oh….sorry, God, I mean…..oh my goodness! yea, I have 10 fingers! it’s amazing!

hmm… it could have been a fluke.

we need to devise another test.

if i was god, i would have infinite knowledge, right? so i could even know the future.
actually, it would be like i could go outside of time, and look at the entire timeline of history, and see the past present and future all at once. because god exists outside of time, its no wonder how he knows everything.

so, i could just step out of time and look at your future or past… but what should i try to guess with this supposed power…

wait, id just step out and see what i end up guessing correctly using this to figure out what ill guess.

my guess is…

you will own guitar hero world tour in the future.

so am i right?…

im so right hes speechless.(im sure)

… but because i dont really know and i have to guess, i suppose im not god. oh well. and i was going to ask him to ask me to make myself into someone who could call down fire from the sky if i was.. and then explain why i didnt know i was god to me…

as for death. if you really do know god, your going to heaven. so its not something to fear then. otherwise, what are you waiting for? im here to tell you, i want to see you in heaven. listen when i say, its free, its easy, its fun. just understand that people have sinned, and god sent his son to pay for those sins so that you dont have to. and before you know it, you dont fear death, because you can know that your saved.

… okay, enough of me overly contributing to this post. goodnight (or morning) anyone who cares.

i still remember my father. so dearly loved and missed. it seems that it is just like yesterday. he just slept and never woke up. autopsy reveals that it was a cardiac arrest. idk. all i know is the pain and guilt. how i wish that things were a lot more different. it would have been acceptable that he just had a disease or some sort of sickness. in that way, i could still show my real emotions of love and care. but i was not given that option. in fact, no choices at all were given. at that fateful night, GOD just had decided that it is time for my father to go. whether we all like it or not. whether i forgive myself or not. whether it is that painful or not.

one may encounter friends, partner, lovers and a whole lot of strangers in his lifetime, but nothing really compares to a parent. a parent’s love is totally unconditional and forgiving. and more often than not, to a fault. love that could sometimes kill, but likewise heal. that sometimes leave scars.

hoping that he is at peace now w/ GOD make me move forward to life. my father left me when i was 13. i am now 28. almost 15 years had passed. half of my life i had learned to live w/o him. but it still like yesterday. my father, so dearly loved and missed.

Anonymous wrote:
im so right hes speechless.(im sure)

… but because i dont really know and i have to guess, i suppose im not god. oh well. and i was going to ask him to ask me to make myself into someone who could call down fire from the sky if i was.. and then explain why i didnt know i was god to me…

as for death. if you really do know god, your going to heaven. so its not something to fear then. otherwise, what are you waiting for? im here to tell you, i want to see you in heaven. listen when i say, its free, its easy, its fun. just understand that people have sinned, and god sent his son to pay for those sins so that you dont have to. and before you know it, you dont fear death, because you can know that your saved.

… okay, enough of me overly contributing to this post. goodnight (or morning) anyone who cares.

wow, I lost internet connection and it started this big phenomenon @_@ lol

Anonymous wrote:
my guess is…

you will own guitar hero world tour in the future.

so am i right?…

and no, I already own it haha. so I guess you’re really not God :\ dang, I was looking forward to chattin with ya

(so i was right. if you own it back when i said that, and you still own it, its the future comparitively.)

sorry kristina. just having fun. celebrate in life those that are gone though. its not a terrible way to look at it. and even more so if they go on to heaven.

what matters the most is not how long you live on earth. but what impact you make while you’re living your short life.
and death is not something to mourn for if we know where we’re going after we die. it’s actually something to celebrate if we live it well. becoz we’ve made that impact and make the world a better place, even if it’s only for one person.