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Well. You sum it up quite well. I have no idea what to say to this. Luckily i`m not able to end up in the same situation.

blame the eagles for saying”your prison is walking through this world all alone”

hmmm, that does sound like a rubbish situation to be in! Can’t you claim benefits for yourself? You could sell your car, and start paying off the debt. I’m looking for a job too, if the Credit Crunch is hitting Florida as bad as it’s hitting England’s unemployment levels than good luck finding a job! At least we have the NHS (it means we don’t pay for our medical bills, and its technically ‘free’, but they take a little bit of money from your paycheck, which is fair enough!)

but in my opinion, you should just get as much money out of the government as possible! Its their fault your finding it difficult to find a job in the first place! Fooooooools!

oh and its also their fault you have to pay to see a doctor! Stupidity!

Your story is kinda weird and vague. So are you still living with your parents? What the hell is wrong anyway with you? Can’t you put it in one sentence or two.

For what it’s worth, just hang on. Things will get better. If not today, maybe tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow! But at least find comfort and hope that it will still be better. Find a job, renew your faith, socialize more, think positive and love your family more.

I have been through tough times for years myself. My family was seperated and put in foster homes at one point. Even as kids we did anything to get some money. We clean peoples yards, swept out peoples stores, ran errands, baby sat, you name it, we did it just to eat. There were eight kids and two mothers raising all of us. We ate toast every day for breakfast if there was bread. I was scared everyday that we would be taken away from from our mothers because we had a strong sense of love for each other.

The amazing thing that happened is this made me extremely strong and really committed to my family. We are still close today.

Everything gets better with time and taking action. If you stand still, life stands still. Good luck.

Okay, so basically everyone who has replied so far is either, giving bad advice, a jerk, or hasn’t read the post.
I don’t know how it works in America but here, if you are looking for work and can’t get it you can get benefits from the government.
And if you can’t pay medical bills there are certain payments schemes and stuff like that.
If I were you I would probably go back to Michigan.
I understand that that means leaving your family with nothing but they have sort of put you into a situation where you have no other choice.
They should use public transport and not depend on you so much.
Besides, if you move back you will probably have a better chance at a job and then you could consider sending them a little.

Or have I completely misjudged the situation??

I think signmycast you should leave out judging others on this sight. I don’t consider myself ignorant nor a jerk. We merely see things in a different light.

I didn’t say that you were a jerk. I said that everyone who had replied was i> either i/> a jerk or giving bad advice or hadn’t read the post. I based that on my own opinion which is that no one has given any solid help that is relevant.

signmycast wrote:
Okay, so basically everyone who has replied so far is either, giving bad advice, a jerk, or hasn’t read the post.
I don’t know how it works in America but here, if you are looking for work and can’t get it you can get benefits from the government.
And if you can’t pay medical bills there are certain payments schemes and stuff like that.
If I were you I would probably go back to Michigan.
I understand that that means leaving your family with nothing but they have sort of put you into a situation where you have no other choice.
They should use public transport and not depend on you so much.
Besides, if you move back you will probably have a better chance at a job and then you could consider sending them a little.

Or have I completely misjudged the situation??

Dude…I said he should claim benefits!

In all fairness, yeah, that’s true.

Hey mike
I am sorry for what you are going through right now, but you have to pray to god and ask him for his help and believe in him, things will work out for you if you have faith. you are feeling depress because you are thinking of the life you had and the things you had that is in the past and you have to move forward towards the future or else you will be stuck in the past. stop worrying i know its hard but worrying do not help it just keep you from moving forward. get a job anything its a start,and work towards paying off some of your bills and join a church it helps a lot, they have programs to help people that is in need. talk to your parents and tell them how you are feeling, remember they are worried to and you will hear what they are feeling and they will hear yours. it is better to work together as a family that being by yourself, all you have to remember is god loves you and he will help you but you have to help yourself. think of this as a trial you are going through, maybe you were not thinking of god when you were happy and you had money and he want to to be closer to him so he has to take away your worldly things to allow you to become closer to him, you see when we dont need anything we dont think of god but when we are in need then we think of god and why all those things are happening to us. but god allows us to suffer to bring us closer to him.mike god loves you find the strenght in him and ask him to guide you, believe in him and have faith dont just say it but truely believe and i love you and hope you love god and others and yourself hope you email soon bye for now.

Thank you so much for getting back to us. This is wonderful news and I wish you and your family the best of everything in these hard economic times.

Sometimes there are down turns in life and with communication of the whole family working together as you have initiated, turn up surprising results.

No matter how gloomy things get in life the only option we have is to keep going. Taking a direction forward by going back to where we started can be a new beginning for everyone to go forward with their lifes.

Have a safe trip back, good luck to you and your family.

Hey mike i am happy that things is better for you and your family. i wish you all well for the future in everything you all do, i prayed for you and your family and i thank god that you are ok.

Back to Michigan it is. Florida is one of the worst places for job loss right now.

signmycast wrote:
Okay, so basically everyone who has replied so far is either, giving bad advice, a jerk, or hasn’t read the post.
I don’t know how it works in America but here, if you are looking for work and can’t get it you can get benefits from the government.
And if you can’t pay medical bills there are certain payments schemes and stuff like that.
If I were you I would probably go back to Michigan.
I understand that that means leaving your family with nothing but they have sort of put you into a situation where you have no other choice.
They should use public transport and not depend on you so much.
Besides, if you move back you will probably have a better chance at a job and then you could consider sending them a little.

Or have I completely misjudged the situation??

ne guilty of not reading the post.

me not ne :p

I hope things have started to get better. But if not. Hang in there