Ok so now I’ve tried asking him about whats going on in his life.

lnf.taste.the.rainbo

Ok so now I’ve tried asking him about whats going on in his life.

It isnt working either. He just starts talking about how Im being unreasonable. I asked him about his feelings for me and he hesitated for about 2 minutes and fianlly said that he still loved me but he didnt want to be with me unless we could get through whatever is going on right now. He is still avoiding me, and he is telling his friends all this bad stuff about me, that he wont even talk to me about. He used to be the sweet guy that always made me feel better and now he just makes me feel worse. He says he has gotten it in his mind that I am going to be the woman he marries.. but if he’s going to act like this I dont want to marry him. I love him so much and I just want to talk to him and work things out, but he never wants to talk to me about it. But Im scared that if he doesnt our relationship is going to end. I really dont want that. : /

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Although you haven’t said what this matter is about, it is clear the lines of communication have broken down. If the love is there for both of you, you will work it out. It sounds like you both desperately love each other, so I’m sure you will get over this.

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Seems like he is lost but I think he loves you too. There might be something in your relation that’s bothering him. Don’t worry, every couple goes through this once in a while. There is NO reason to break-up at all. So stop thinking of that option.

Instead of asking him questions, try to work on you for sometime. Don’t ask him to change. Just sit alone and think about the things in you that are bothering him. It might be that you are asking him too many questions or arguing over small things. Just work on those for sometime. Be like a loving and understanding partner and show him that you are changing for your love. Do those little things for him that makes him happy. And remember, sometimes it’s always better to say sorry even if it’s not your fault. I mean, if we love someone, there is no harm in just apologizing even if it’s not our fault, right? He will be amazed when he see the changes in you and trust me, he will definately change too. Give him time and everything would be fine :)

Good Luck!

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

Thank you, both of you. I’ll try.
love_life: the only thing about the whole chaging thing is that over the past year I have almost entirely changed myself for him and I never ask him to do the same because I feel that if you love someone you should love them unconditionally.
We’ll see.
Thank you both for your advice.

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