Love help: How do I control my emotions and stop being clingy? - Help.com

Yeah, you shouldn’t be too obsesed with someone you like, some people may think of you as a stalker. Maybe it’s one of those relationships that moves alittle slower then most.

Sometimes….it helps to try and talk to other girls for a while. I hope everything works out for ya with this gal….but worse case scenario, if it doesn’t it will be a great learning experience.

I can’t find your previous post so I can’t really advise you on what to do different. Can you give me the short version and maybe I can help from a girl’s point of view.

exaltitud wrote:
Yeah, I probably should have added the link in my top post. Here it is:

http://help.com/post/246866-ive-been-…

That pretty much what this one came off of.

To be honest that really doesn’t sound all that clingy. It really sounds like the way mu hubby and I acted when we first hooked up. We would actually wake up early to wish the other one good morning and we would talk while we had coffee.

It really sounds to me like she just got scared of how close you two were becoming and she is not ready for a serious relationship. I hate to say it, but get out and meet some new people that are into talking and communicating because to me her actions seem a little flaky.

Thank you for this post, I am in the same boat. Except for the fact that the woman in question is my wife. We are separated, but live in the same apartment for financial reasons. I am trying my best to recover our relationship, but she says she doesn’t want that, And my emotions are getting the best of me.
I am by nature a very emotional guy, and the stress of not being her “Man” is amplifying all feelings involved, on both sides. I never cry,EVER! Except when we fight about out relationship.. Then I turn into a big suck.
I HATE it but I can’t seem to get a grip on it. She is the only part of my life that makes me so frustrated I cry. And all I can ask myself is, “How do I fall out of Love?”