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everybody hates me at school at the moment, and these group of girls are being really nasty.

and the head of year knows, and the girls know that the head of year knows and now there being really mean, and keep coming up to me and having a go at me.
what should i do?
please help me.

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Wolves_of_Passion offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

Well if it were me I’d probably slap them if I were a girl that is…nvm. You should talk to someone irl that you trust about this i.e. parents, a teacher, a counselor or any other adult that you trust who might be able to help you. Doing nothing solves nothing.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (39 minutes after post)

Hi there. What country are you in? Have you told your parents. What would you like to happen? Would you like to stay at the school or change schools? Have you been at the school long? Answer me back and I will see if I can help.

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9 months, 1 week ago (40 minutes after post)

Your head of year should be tackling the problem… no school should allow bullying to take place and this is the worst type… when the bullies know they are being watched yet fear nothing and continue… so speak to your parents… get them to go into school and insist something is done… the bullies should be suspended until they learn their behaviour is not acceptable…. but the next bit of advice is going to be really hard for you but will work if you try it… bullies are cowards… so i suggest you take on the ring leader… in a public place with lots of people around you… members of staff there if possible… next comment the bully makes you face her… head on… all it will take is one comment… something like ” does being a bully make you feel good about yourself”… make sure you say the word bully…. she has to be shown up for the person she is!Then you walk away… don’t wait for a response from her…

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super-pink-peppe offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (51 minutes after post)

well they sound like idiots. one of your best bets is not to be alone, it’s easier for them to shout abuse at you if you’re by yourself. but if you have someone with you they’ll feel a bit intimadated. try to ignore them coz if you return the nastiness you’re giving them a reason to continue. if they see their efforts are falling on deaf ears they’ll leave it.
girls can be bitchy i do know that i really do but don’t let it get to you, they’re being mean to make themselves feel better so i wouldn’t take it personally
:)

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 481 #
GB | 9 months, 1 week ago (51 minutes after post)

have you done or said something wrong to these girls?

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Anonymous #
9 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

love yourself whatever ur!

don’t bother rest

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