Love help: Im head over heals inlove with this guy but he moved away what do i do?

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Im head over heals inlove with this guy but he moved away what do i do?

I dated this guy for quite sometime and Im madly inlove with him. we only fought twice because his friends made me screw up big time and i feel horrible. After about a year his family moved and he cant afford to come visit me as often as I’d like and I dont have very much free time to go places. Hes the one and only guy that I’ve ever loved this much, but what do I do?

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C.M.Theisen 2 #
Providence, RI, US | 3 years, 6 months ago (1 day after post)

I’ve gone through a number of very lengthy long distance separations from people I have loved, so I recognize how painful and truly sad this is. What’s worse is that there really aren’t any pleasant solutions for you.

Everything comes down to whether there is any realistic chance that the two of you will ever live in the same place again. If that chance exist, then a long distance relationship might work. But only if you BOTH put a lot of effort into communicating meaningfully. Keep each other current on what’s going on and how you are feeling about things. Try to make each other laugh. Do not concentrate on moping about how the distance sucks. Plus, the two of you will need to brush up on your letter writing skills. I don’t think there is anything better at keeping the romantic anticipation alive than some good correspondence by mail.

On the other hand, if it isn’t possible for the two of you to live in the same town again, you need to comes to terms with the fact that this relationship is going to become less relevant to you both. That doesn’t mean that the two of you will stop caring for each other. Definitely stay in touch and stay friends. (And who knows? Maybe romance will blossom again years down the road.) But recognize that your grieving over this loss is going to end one day. And I assure you that you will find another love to replace it. Don’t fall into thinking that this guy was your one chance at happiness and that you’ve somehow blown it. Life isn’t that cruel.

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Pumkin1991 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (2 days, 3 hours after post)

There isn’t much you can do. Just try to find another man, there are plenty of them. But if it’s meant to be you’ll will end up together. I hope it works out for you.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (2 days, 7 hours after post)

get over it woman!

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Queen Elizatron 4000 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (3 weeks after post)

They don’t work, your young and you need to let him go. If your not married he so you have no reason to stay with each other or to move or to come and see each other. THIS IS NOT GOING TO WORK! sorry. I bet if you allow yourself you will fall in love again soon. It will take some time and it’s hard you know that. You know it can’t work deep in your heart why do you think you asked because you need someone to agree with you so you feel better about the break up. I know you know what you need to do so now you need to talk with him. I bet he’s feeling the same way. Talk it over with him, don’t break up on bad terms and look at like this you will have a great friend. Elizabeth