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everyone who has a heart, and even some that dont appear to, get it broken.

go through it and youll be better at the end

dont hold grudges, dont give in to negativity

Feeling like dying without her is a normal reaction to losing her because you loved her and she had your heart and a big place in your life… if you actually feel suicidal over this you need to talk to someone in person now whether your parents a trusted friend or a suicide hot line and get counselling as soon as possible. …and I mean do it now!!!

If however you mean this is just how you feel deep inside and its has a strong sway over your life and mood… I am sorry to tell you you have just learned one of the hardest lessons and experiences in life what is to loved and had your heart broken…

You can do one of two things now to deal with it, one you rally your romantic skills and resources and with undying resolve and determination win her back…. this is no small task and is not for the weak or faint of heart and it takes alot of love and finesse and understanding of her as a person her feelings and who she is and what she wants… and there are no guarantees… it might take a lot of time and probably will and definitely a lot of emotional strength…

second thing you can do is take time to let go and heal… either one you choose won’t be easy… you have to decide what is best for you and what you know and can handle… these are the only two choices….

with letting go and healing its going to take some time,,, and you are right in feeling you may never love a girl like you loved her… you won’t… when love comes along again it will be as unique as a finger print… it may never replace the spot you had in your heart for her but… also in time you may find that what you had for her will pass completely…. there are no easy answers but you have to give yourself time…

You don’t want to hear this now… but you have to remember their are plenty of other girls in the world and more than one that you could fall in love with as much and more than her and let go and forget her with time…

Most of give yourself time and let your heart heal… its a process and you may look at this now and think its bogus but later realize the truth of it…

Hope you feel better as soon as possible…

Good luck.

Just move on…it happens to a lot of people in life one can achieve true love with many people. It sounds hard because it is but you need to live. Enjoy other things in life find more love.

Your not willing to accept who you are… but you expected her to…
Thing is to first come to terms with yourself and realise that even though she felt like the right one then, later on she wouldnt have been (you should have some reasons)…
Then comes the tough part going on with your like acting like nothing happened hoping you learnt something useful from the experience and hoping even more for a second chance…

yeah…you just gotta look at it like she wasn’t for you man..like just 1 down and hey she could come back or not just go with the flow and say f**k the B*tch along the way and realize that you are an amazing person and you have a lot to offer it helped me I had heart break a few weeks ago now I’m doing fine =) and if you believe in god pray for the pain 2 go away 1 luv homes.