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Do guys like it when girls make the first move?

Such as always texting them first or asking the guy out

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chubby rain offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 minute after post)

I dont think they mind it at all. it shows you are confident

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Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Girls please hear me out haha, do the guys you like a favor and let them know how your feel :P

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1&Only offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

honestly it depends on the guy and how he feels about the girl. for example if i like her and she makes a move its cool with me. if i dont like her its a different story

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1&Only offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

but yes braad is right because even if i dont like her it still is nice to know so tell them how you feel

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 284 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Hell yeah.
Not enough girls ask me out :(

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%$*&^$* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 109 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I would go with yes. I dont see whats wrong with either gender asking. Plus if it was left up to me, Ild never do it heh.

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fruit.n.nut offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

yes but depends how they move.

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 284 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (7 minutes after post)

fruit.n.nut wrote:
yes but depends how they move.

In the direction of me is a good start :)

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stevenochrey2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I like it when girls make the first move. as long as I like them or I’m ok with it. it takes some pressure off the guy and it helps things go a lot more smooth for both of you.

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Wendor offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (13 minutes after post)

if you ask me, I would like her to make the first move since I am quite shy :P

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ƒ(x)=healberry³ offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Bellflower, CA, US | 9 months ago (28 minutes after post)

As a guy, I would love if a girl made the first move. It would show assertiveness on her part, which I find to be quite attractive.

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zlindey offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (31 minutes after post)

i would like that cause sometimes she might be hard to read and you never know what to do

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

Honestly, I hate making the first move. I’ve made plenty of first moves and have gone home feeling like a complete idiot. Girls can be just as insecure as guys so why should making the first move be gender-specific?

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