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I think it’s not about being selfish. It’s about having enough love and value for yourself as you have for others.

I’ve always said that balance is the word. When I tell ppl that Love has to also have limit… they say, Love doesn’t have limit. I ask, if you don’t love this person enough, then you will ruin the relationship, right?. But what if you have no limit to love and end up loving more than you have to? Then you will spoil the love, right!

To you, Godfather, I say…

You need to be yourself, know that it is ok to be you. The day that you start accepting yourself as whatever you want to call yourself… being dumb maybe, not knowing how to talk to ppl, being to considerate, whatever you think fits you, know that it’s ok Start loving yourself, by learning about yourself, not learn from the others. Look at you and start having a relationship with you and see what really works for you. Not what works best for the other. When you meet someone, don’t worry about nothing, don’t count those past relationships, go forward and be yourself, don’t try to please too much or give too much, and find a relationship that as well believes it this way. Talk about it. And it’s ok to talk about just barely finding yourself. By the looks of it, I see you are a passionate person. And pasion has limits also. Someone is out there for you, but go with this teaching… “A homeless person, who doesn’t shower, doesn’t wash his teeth and toungue, smells bad, …etc.” no one would want to have a relationship with him. So, What’s the difference with a person that doesn’t know about himself, doesn’t care about himself enough to learn things that’ll work for him only? Certaintly no one wants to be with someone like that. LOVE YOURSELF, KNOW MORE ABOUT YOU AND YOU WILL SEE THAT YOU WILL ATTRACT PEOPLE… OH AND IN THE PROCESS, DON’T FORGET YOUR PAST so you will learn from it and, just to keep you humble.