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I am a vegetarian animal lover in love with a hunter!

! Can any of you relate? Any suggestions on avoiding conflict/working together with our differences?? Other than that, he’s perfect! Thanks everyone! :)

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Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

This would make a great comedy, i could see it now :D, but i would just not talk about it, don’t try to change him and tell him the same thing. Everyone is different. Make sure you both respect each others views.

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IDon'tEverQuit offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 127 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

You see from two different point of views but that doesn’t matter if you are in love. You keep being a vegetarian, he can keep being a hunter. Just don’t eat it.

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bloodshot! offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 167 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

If you are in love, dont change anything. You can find lots of other things that connect you… Just be sure you dont critisize him.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 75 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

I love animals too, but I hunt. I think if you eat meat you might as well do some of the killing yourself. I mean someone is out there killing a whole lot of cows for me and all my friends. I don’t see this as a big deal really, do you want someone exactly like you? It might be a problem if you can’t cook for him if you get married.

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theresape offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Waltham, MA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

Dump him. You might have the hots for him now, but the long-term prospects are very poor for a healthy relationship with a person whose fundamental mortality and values are so different from yours.

This is not like when he’s a Yankees fan and you root for the Red Sox. This is about your core beliefs on right and wrong.

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