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Is there any good decent people in the world?

? really??? like you’d c on television, ones that really help genuine people who, well didnt get dealt as good a card at them in life. Like theres so many people out there with so much money they dont know what to do with it. They buy stupid things they dont need, just to show off. For example, me, im 24 with 3 wonderful children and I was lucky to meet their dad at the very young age of 15, been together since, couldnt imagine my life any other way. But what would be perfect would be for us to get married and buy our own house and be a proper family and enjoy life together, instead were stuck in a council house with just about enough money to get by on. Its just not fair. Dont get me wrong, Im so lucky to have my health and my family are healthy but I just want that little bit more you know?Iv returned to finish school and my leaving cert so I can go to college and get a good job and save to get married and buy our own house but when I think about it I get so upset because by the time I do that my kids will be alot older and theyl be near leaving home so I feel like Im not giving them everything they deserve, like their parents married or our own place to call home. so thats what Im wondering, is there any person in this big big world that ever helps genuine nice people out? Like a real superhero???

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Fusion ZX offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Now don’t be confusing real life with television now. Things happen differently on the tube because all it is staged, real life is random. Unfortunately, no matter how good it sounds and how much we may want it, life can’t be like what you view on a screen. However that dosen’t mean that real life can’t be fun as well.

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saraharkins200 offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Yeah your right, just soooo frustrating!! lol

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

If only, I don’t think theres anyone who can be great for everyone.

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saraharkins200 offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Thanks for reading my post guys
sarah

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Karla... offline Verified User (4 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

There are good people in the world but there hard to find now a days with so much hate in the world.
But yeah you’ll find a good person every now and then thers a few on here who never judge you but help you.
Karla

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

You know it doesn’ really cost a lot to get married. Justice of the Peace, Wedding Chapel, lots of people have done it for under $100… you should do it for your children.

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Fusion ZX offline Verified User (4 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Truth is everyone has good and evil in their hearts, no one is pure.

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

na not in Ireland…really expensive and thanks Karla, sweet answer

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (21 minutes after post)

No kidding? That’s too bad. So like how much do you have to pay and to whom? Here you just go to the courthouse and buy a license and have a preacher do the ceremony and sign the license… $90 for the license but if you do pre marriage counseling it’s only $30.

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

oh premarraige counciling over here is 200 euro alone, lol, trust me Ireland VERY VERY expensive, average wedding between 20000-30000

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (25 minutes after post)

thank you fcell04, great answer
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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (34 minutes after post)

ah thanks hun :)

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (3 days, 4 hours after post)

Yes there are good, decent people out here… The trouble with being good, and decent is that the other people percieve those traits as weakness…

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (3 days, 17 hours after post)

Also I think alot of it is because mabye people would like to help people out but they just arnt sure if theyl appreciate it enough

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

So what is it you want? Someone to hand you a big bag of money? If that’s it, then I don’t really feel for you. Ya, your low on cash, but you can change that if you work at it. You have no right to expect someone to just give you a house or big bag of money because some people have it.

If what you really mean is you want friends, then I think that’s a reasonable request. It’s hard finding honest, true friends that will stick by you. I have trouble believing there are any decent people left in the world myself. I think that wish is reasonable but I’m not saying it’s easy or there are a lot of people like that.

Be thankful you have your health and a loving family that will stick by you. I am only 3 years older than you and crippled in one arm and have relentless, chronic pain from a severe back injury and surgery that didn’t solve the problem. I have no girlfriend or wife and the people that I thought were my friends, most of them ended up turning their back on me. One even seriously betrayed me. Sometimes all I want is to have a friend that really loves me and cares about me. Sometimes I just want them around, not even to talk or do stuff with, the don’t have to listen to or fix all my problems. I don’t know if it’s ever possible. And I don’t know if there is any way out of this because I’m so depressed it’s impossible to really make any new friends.

I’m sure your situation is tough. But, there are things about it tat I would give anything to have. People that love me, my working body back, freedom from constant pain. Can’t you find any hope in the family that loves you and supports you?

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saraharkins200 offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

cdebosc wrote:
So what is it you want? Someone to hand you a big bag of money? If that’s it, then I don’t really feel for you. Ya, your low on cash, but you can change that if you work at it. You have no right to expect someone to just give you a house or big bag of money because some people have it.

If what you really mean is you want friends, then I think that’s a reasonable request. It’s hard finding honest, true friends that will stick by you. I have trouble believing there are any decent people left in the world myself. I think that wish is reasonable but I’m not saying it’s easy or there are a lot of people like that.

Be thankful you have your health and a loving family that will stick by you. I am only 3 years older than you and crippled in one arm and have relentless, chronic pain from a severe back injury and surgery that didn’t solve the problem. I have no girlfriend or wife and the people that I thought were my friends, most of them ended up turning their back on me. One even seriously betrayed me. Sometimes all I want is to have a friend that really loves me and cares about me. Sometimes I just want them around, not even to talk or do stuff with, the don’t have to listen to or fix all my problems. I don’t know if it’s ever possible. And I don’t know if there is any way out of this because I’m so depressed it’s impossible to really make any new friends.

I’m sure your situation is tough. But, there are things about it tat I would give anything to have. People that love me, my working body back, freedom from constant pain. Can’t you find any hope in the family that loves you and supports you?

read it again, I didnt ask for anything, Im simply asking if theres any really good people in the world. Look at all the hospitals being shut in ireland and children losing lives as a result, well id like to know why all these superstars, bono for example who have too much money to know what to do with it, why dont they help out?? Pay for equipment instead of wasting it on fancy cars and houses with too many rooms in them, youd get lost. Its immoral. If I had that much money id be buying beds for hospitals, medical equipment. I wouldnt be wasting it on crap.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (11 months, 1 week after post)

yes there is, ‘look inside ‘youself’ and you will find what you are looking for, that way you’ll find what you seek, GOD is real, you’ll see. atherst.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (12 months after post)

I know this might sound strange but I had the privileg of helping my brother move from his home. In the process I noticed that he had collected so much stuff (junk) I might add that I would have thrown away a while ago, yet we struggled just the two of us to hang on to something of no value to me it seemed.

Just something to consider life is the most important thing in this world. You don’t know it right now but you already have it. It’s your family. Relationships and enjoying one another has no equal. It’s called love.

We must all learn to be greatful for what we have before it slips out of our hands. You wont know it until it’s gone if your not wise. So wake up and smell the coffee you already have the greatest gift on earth your family may you have many happy and wonderful days with them.

Joshua.

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