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Love is simply a word i am not understanding…

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Vilén offline Verified User (4 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

That means you’re not ready for it.
Forget it and move on.
Jesus Christ, we get so many of these posts every day. People have too much time on their hands.

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jewel_faith5 offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 4 years, 2 months ago (17 minutes after post)

sigh appreciate it sooo ******* helpful thx

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needsomehelp offline Verified User (4 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (4 hours, 52 minutes after post)

I don’t know what it means either… I guess it’s a feeling?

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NikAngelo offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (7 hours, 53 minutes after post)

If you still would like an idea of love, I will share my view of it.

Love is an word humans use to describe what they feel when they are both very physically and very emotionally attracted to another.

Physical attraction comes in two forms: heredity and lust. You can only love family or those you lust after.

Emotional attraction comes from how much you like to be around this person, how compatible you are and how much you care for and seek out each others’ company. You cannot love someone you do not know, or someone you cannot stand to be around.

If both physical attraction and emotional attraction reach high yet unquantifiable levels, it dawns on a person that they are in love.

Love is a word. Love is a word to describe an emotion. Love is the word to describe the emotion felt when you are physically bonded to another through either family or desire to create family (lust) and through an ability to be compatible with another and the the desire to be around them.

Love is not devine. Love does not conquer all. There is no such thing as “true love” or “love at first sight.” Love is not greater than the sum of its parts. You can love one person one day and not the next. It depends on the levels of physical and emotional attraction.

Love is said to inspire many things. Love does nothing. Because you are both physically and emotionally attracted to someone, you do things for them, and might even convince yourself that their life is more important than your own.

Don’t fall for the flowery perceptions of love. Love exists as a word to describe a power combination of feelings. It is not stupid or superficial, but it is also not all-powerful. It is simply a word.

Hope that helped.

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jewel_faith5 offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 4 years, 2 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

O.o intriguing response… helpful? not sure but interesting

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NikAngelo offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

I take it that wasn’t the deifnition you were looking for?

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jewel_faith5 offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 4 years, 2 months ago (2 weeks, 3 days after post)

honestly was not looking for anything except povs on the matter

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