why does he love me?
? there are so many prettier girls who havent screwed up as much as me. Its not like he cant get another girl cuz after we broke up girls, who im not half as pretty as, started to like him. and honestly I annoy myself i cant see how he can love me when im so annoying. the thing that bugs me the most he sees all of this and knows im unsure about him and hes loved me for almost a year and we only dated for a month broke up and got back together for like 2 weeks. why does he love me??
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He loves you for who you are. The things you find annoying about yourself he may think is cute. He doesn’t want those other girls because if he did he would be with them instead of you.
Maybe he just does?
You cant tell your heart who to love nor can you ignore it.
Does there have to be a reason to why he loves you?
i guess there doesnt have to be a reason but i feel guilty cuz he loves me so much and i juz dont know if i feel the same way.
your always enough for God he takes you no matter what you did wrong. He loves you unconditionally. even if you turn away he will continue to love you. God is always there for you when you need love or somebody to turn to
Maybe hes your soulmate and will forgive and forget every thing you ever done. Loves conquer all just remember that.
I will stay away from ideas of soulmates and divine love for the time being.
He cares for you because he cares for you. The things you may think are annoying he might find cute, as Scarof said. If you have messed up, he may feel the want to protect you. Quirks are often attractive. They make you stand out.
And who says you aren’t good looking? If that is your picture then you are very good looking. Albiet not necessarily in a “hot” way, that’s a different look, but that picture plus what you say about being annoying leads me to believe he thinks you are a very cute girl and he wants you for that.
I say be happy and roll with it. Only if you want to of course.
Oh and a shout out from the Bay Area.
love goes beyond looks. Love is this unexplainable thing…he loves YOU for YOU! isnt that great, i know its easy to get insecure esp when their are “hotter”girls out there trying to win your man, or who u know ure man could get if he wasnt with u. but just be happy he loves u and love him back. Love is a beautiful thing that isnt easily found, its easy to get insecure..but try to be more confident (once again i know its hard, even models r insecure). Anyways just know that LOVE goes beyond looks, its basically looking at someone from the inside, once u love them everything about them is attractive. (btw im a girl)
Well, you can’t love someone in an intimate relationship if you don’t find them attractive. It just doesn’t work. But yeah. Live it up. He’s into you.
yes but u cant keep someone because you’re “Hot” basically LOVE consists of many things, u need your looks to CATCH HIm, but in order to keep him u need to have the inner beauty that appeals to him, because hotness alone wont get u anywhere in the long run. So just be happy he loves you!
Well yes. For example, from your picture you have “caught me.” If you can keep me emotionally satisfied love may grow. But a strong emotional connection to a toad is just a friendship.
(and I’m pretty sure it’s a one way thing).
lol 2 a toad :) haha thats mean
Well, i was being literal. Like a pet. Ha. I guess you could take that in a mean way… it wouldn’t be wrong.
Hey Music, around where do you live? My picture is close to yours on the map.
hey! I’m sry i haven’t logged on for awhile :P but i guess when i wrote this post i was just really frustrated because i didn’t love him back and hes like one of my best friends so he always reminds me that he loves me.
Im from Santa Barbara. I love the bay area because I always drive up there when I’m visiting my Dad or my friend and I love to run up at the parks up there.
Hailing from the same Bay Area. Where do you come up to?
Sometimes Sunnyvale, Plesanton, and San Mateo, and that little town called Trucky about 3 hours away. Where do u live?
Millbrae. We’ve practically met.
I think I’ve actually heard of it. :P
yeah. Average town of 20k. Nothing to do. Two towns away from San Mateo.
so its near Great America, rite? that sounds alot like Santa Barbara theres absolutely nothing to do except going down to the beach
Kinda. Other direction. North of SM. But yeah I spend my time around Burlingame mostly.
oh yea i totally know where that is.
I might have already mentioned this, but from that picture I find you very attractive. I don’t know why you had doubts about that.
lol thank you, but the girls who go to my school are absolutely gorgeous.
Be confident. I seriously doubt that every girl who goes to your school is gorgeous. This all sounds like a frame of mind.
lol well alot of them are anyhow im sorking on the confidence part still :P
Thats the only issue. And getting together with this guy will help that. What happens happens.
getting together with the guy who loves me?? but i know its mean but i dont really love him. hes sweet and everything but hes not mature at all and after spending this weekend with him i need someone who i can actually talk to and understands what we’re talking about.
im sorry that was really mean for me to say
no no. Isn’t that your answer? I thought you were debating whether or not to go out with him. That’s your answer. No. You’re too good for him.
i was but i realize now why it didnt work out dont get me wrong hes a great guy and everyone wants me to go out with him but its not that im too good for him its just i cant stand it when he juz stands there and tells me too use smaller words.
People say that to me as well. Use smaller words. Don’t act stupid, just don;t act snooty. I’m ure you already knew that, but yeah, if he’s a screwball there’s no point sharing a relationship with him.
i hope i dont act snooty :P but yea i realized that this weekend hes not stupid and i know it, but he kindathinks its cute that he acts stupid. im sry im done complaining about him im just annoyed. lol
you do what you want to do.
well im starting to annoy myself with my complaining lol
My best friend is in love with me. he has a wonderful personality but he doesn’t have the looks, if you look better I would go out with him, but I’m not attracted to him. I also feel guilty because he loves me to death and would do anything for me. I also like another guy, and my best friend who is in love with me knows this. I really like this other guy and Im pretty sure he likes me. I just feel guilty about breaking my best friend’s heart.
who ****** cares lol
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