losing a friend help: Im so distraught right now. - Help.com

Whispernova,
I’m not surprised you feel hurt.
To feel like your closest friend is casting you aside is the worst.
You just have to decide whether you want to put up with it anymore.
In the end, you have to think about yourself and about your needs.
There are ups and downs in all relationships, but if this has been happening for a while you have to do something about it otherwise you will keep feeling down.
Naturally we are scared of being isolated, and if he is your closest friend you will feel even more so.
Build up your relationships with your other friends so that you are not completely alone.
You don’t have to cast him out of your life forever.
If you still want to associate with him, it may be good just to take a break from each other for a while so you can sort yourself out.
But like I said, the way you feel should be the most important.
You have to know what you want and what you need.
I’m sorry your friend has hurt you, I know exactly how you feel.
And while you may feel horrible because you aren’t talking to each other that much any more, you won’t keep on feeling hurt and alone as much as you do now.
It is your choice, but I hope this helps a little.
Chin up! I’m always here if you need to talk.
-Crazy ♥

Arguements are part of life, we work through them and it makes us stronger. Talk with him to get him to understand how you feel and try to see how things are from his point of view.

You need to know that you are making the right choice before you do anything otherwise things will turn out badly.
Do you know what you want for yourself?
Take care,
-Crazy ♥