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my b/f wont talk to me around his friends, he only talkes to me around me or me & my friends….. I dont know why but I would like to know why boys do that???

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evil_cheerleader08 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

guys are pyscotic….they do things nobody understands. he prolly just wants to have his friends think hes all big and bad and wont talk or show emotion around them….or maybe hes just not that into you…ive had a guys do that to me before

sweetestkiss* 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (12 minutes after post)

well he said hes falling in-love with me with i really find hard to believe but i know he likes me alot

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Thargor 5 #
Guelph, ON, CA | 1 year, 10 months ago (13 minutes after post)

There is often an underlying issue with socializing with friends and the girlfriend. Men typically need approval from thier friends. If your relationship is new, it will fade over time. Make him aware of your concerns because he may not realize he shuts you out. Everyone wears a different persona around others. Finding the dominant persona in any given setting is the area that needs improvement. He needs to learn how to flex his style for your sake and you need to comprimise as well. Find common interests with his friends. If they talk to you, he will follow.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (17 minutes after post)

I have a boyfriend. And he talks to people a lot. s and guys. And it makes me realy jealous when he talks to s. He always tells me that I shouldn’t worry because he’s al mine. But, I still feel strange. The reason he wont talk to you: do you ever even come up to him when hes with ure firendS? REMEMBER: guys haAAAte gurls that are controling. Act like u dont care. Good luck, and after that, maybe hes just testing ure love for him, like if simple thigns wil ruin the realationship. Act normal.

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quizzie 12 #
Longwood, FL, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (19 minutes after post)

some guys arer like tht, my guy friend, not my boyfirned, we only ever met at the library, so when i saw himn at school he would act like i wasnt there, but hed only do it when his friends were around him, i guess they do things like that cause they kepy you to yourself they dont believe you exist in his friends worlds

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Anthrax 76 #
Tv�royri, 00, FO | 1 year, 10 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Yeah, it just means he’s not really comfortable about the whole girlfriend thing yet. He doesn’t want to appear soft and “uncool” towards his friends. This will change when he matures a bit. I wouldn’t worry about it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (25 minutes after post)

I’m with antrax on this one, give him space and don’t make him do things that he’s not really for.

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sweetestkiss* 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

well Im not really like that I wont make him do anything he’s not ready to do but yeah what if he’s like this the whole time we date though should i just ignore this or what???

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Anthrax 76 #
Tv�royri, 00, FO | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 25 minutes after post)

I don’t know…. How much does it annoy you?

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sweetestkiss* 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 31 minutes after post)

well 50 50 i guess it bothers mee less though but i dont know i just wish he would talk to me and his friends since hes able to talk with me and my friends with no worries

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Anthrax 76 #
Tv�royri, 00, FO | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Well, it might be because they talk guy talk. Do you often join the conversation when you’re with him and his friends?

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sweetestkiss* 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 36 minutes after post)

Well yeah and his budds talk to me he just stands by me thats it

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Anthrax 76 #
Tv�royri, 00, FO | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Maybe he’s feeling a bit protective and doesn’t know what to say.

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sweetestkiss* 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

never really occured 2 me

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Anthrax 76 #
Tv�royri, 00, FO | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 43 minutes after post)

Well, you could try asking him…

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sweetestkiss* 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 44 minutes after post)

ok ill do that when he gets here in like 5 mins i g2g see ya

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