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one of my best friends is a guy and we tell each other

everything and he is in a serious relationship with his girlfriend and they have been going out for like 3 years now. I am reli happy for them and i have a life of my own and i see him as sumone who is good to hang around with and have a laugh.

The other night i went to his house as i sumtimes do after skwl and me, him n his brother all watch films and play games n stuff, but that night he told me that he fancied me and if he werent goin out with his girlfriend he would go out with me. He then tried to kiss me n i stopped him because i only see him as a friend and he has a girlfriends and i am strongly against cheating it is a horrible thing to have done to you and a horrible thing to do to someone. He is still with his girlfriend now and they are still going strong. I feel all awkward around him now and i dnt no wat to do cuz i miss talking to him like i used to ?

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evil_cheerleader08 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

the best thing to do in that situation is talk to him about it and explain how you feel about the whole situation and see how he feels about everything.

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Ifeelso offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sewell, NJ, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

he might be in some weird fase. but u should still talk to him and explain tht u dont want anyone to get hurt and u dont want get in the middle of his relationship.

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queenforada offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

thats exactly it tho i have tried to talk to him about it bt he still feels that way about me n he doesnt like to talk bout it cuz he says that it will just make things worse.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (13 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Keep it on a friendship basis for the time being, but it could work out. Love is a strange thing…….

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