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Which is love?

Can love be without a reason? Or does it come by knowing the attributes of a person first, to fall in love with. Can it be one, both or none?

What is love at first sight? Doesn’t that fall into love without a reason? But what if love at first sight fades away after knowing the person? Does that mean it wasn’t love to begin with? Just a crush? But then… why do I feel this same feeling I’ve felt when I knew what love was?

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Anonymous #
9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

love can be anything
it comes in all shapes and forms
but it always brings peace to the mind
and moments where you can forget everything and be happy even if the world around you is crumbling

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Love, like, which ever it is. I don’t like using the word love very often. But its been so long. Its like one of those hopeless love I suppose, or just a crush. What ever it is.

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Anonymous #
9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

hopeless how

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Anonymous #
9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

the hardest thing about this question is also the easiest. love comes in every shape an form, its not set out theres no rule to it and i dont think theres and end to it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Hopeless because this love, or like from afar can’t be any closer. Maybe love won’t accept me, or I won’t accept the love, or rather can’t accept. Which ever it is, the view from where I am standing is beautiful, but just so far.

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Anonymous #
9 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Hmm, maybe in order for us to help you a bit better, you could try and give us a little more information that isn’t quite so cryptic.

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Unhappy Duckling offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (57 minutes after post)

I’m sorry, I was just typing up my thoughts without translating it into english. I simply wanted to know what it is others think what love is. And what you think of my confused perspective of it. I wanted to know whether I do feel what I think I feel for this person that’s on my mind, or if its nothing more than a silly crush.

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