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I feel born in a wrong place, wrong circumstance.

And I just can’t control my life. Everybody just ask, told me an almost neverending tasks for me to do. I don’t know how to solve my problem. And my goal is something almost out of my reach to achieve.

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Rand0 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

OK. Go on.

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Meow... offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 179 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

I feel like Im born in the wrong time…
Tell us a little bit more!

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 346 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I liked that you said ’sometimes almost out of my reach’.

It means that you know a part of you can still get there and make it. Sometimes I have a feeling I was born at the wrong time :/

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

What is your goal?

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Rand0 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

fractal.scatter wrote:
I liked that you said ’sometimes almost out of my reach’.It means that you know a part of you can still get there and make it. Sometimes I have a feeling I was born at the wrong time :/

True dat. A goal that’s not ‘almost out of reach’ isn’t a goal worth achieving is it?

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

My life cycle and circumstance is ABSOLUTELY in a CONTRARY direction to my goal. That’s what I mean by ‘almost out of my reach’. What I have just this Internet, a few science books, and very little time… at night… after doing anybody ask me to do for all the day… from before I open my eyes… until before I close my eyes…

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Jennaaaxox offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

I always feel like I’ve been born in the wrong time, the wrong place, to the wrong people and I often feel like I’m living someone elses life.

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 346 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Then maybe you need to stop doing what other people ask of you so much and concentrate on you.

How old are you?

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 81 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

I should have been a cowboy… missed it by 100 years.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

I am 32. Wanna be a scientist. No job. Live with my parents. I don’t know how to stop do it, I have no reason not to do it, and to do my own need. What they ask are small tasks, but frequently and continously, eveyday, even had been planed, like go to bank, change money, answering telephone, buying stuff, doing social work. They are my family and social group. Thank you by the way..

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Rand0 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

sanadrosl wrote:
I am 32. Wanna be a scientist. No job. Live with my parents. I don’t know how to stop do it, I have no reason not to do it, and to do my own need. What they ask are small tasks, but frequently and continously, eveyday, even had been planed, like go to bank, change money, answering telephone, buying stuff, doing social work. They are my family and social group. Thank you by the way..

Me too. 30. Living at home, no job, but I’m sure there is a future for me, I’m sure there’s a way out.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 81 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

You guys need to move out and get a life… as long as you are your parents slaves you will never move forward.

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Rand0 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

Dr. Ralph wrote:
You guys need to move out and get a life… as long as you are your parents slaves you will never move forward.

No Easy Answers.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 81 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

Of course if your parents are elderly and rich it’s another thing. Just take care of them until they pass and bang you’ve got a house and cash. Depends on what your motive is. I had a friend that lived with his elderly mom and she owned three houses and when he was about 35 suddenly he was rich, of course when he was 34 he was living in the basement doing her chores. Beats working for a living!

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (7 months after post)

I have same situation with you. i think i was born in wrong place wrong country, in my country people try to cheat on tourist or foreigner. people in my country mostly are greedly that they try to take other advantage. worse traffic jam in the world and so many prostitutions it’s because parents have already planned before their daughter born to become “Farang wife” and take their money, and build bigger house than neighborhood,while the daughter force herself to sleep with the old man Farang” the parents get drunk every days or lose money for gambling. now I’m 29 years old still single. i never think to take any men in my country to be my boyfriend because they are lazy,fooling around, stupid. i wish someday i could get out from this country and live a peacful life.

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