girls help: Do guys like it when a girl texts first? - Help.com

Depends.

Cool>
You wanna go out this saturday?
I think we should go to the next level.

Not cool>
We need to talk.
I think we should se other people.

because believe it or not, guys are just as shy as girls are. aslo, it shows confidence in a girl. confidence is very sexy in both guys and girls..

Yes. Isn’t it a shame that this question is necessary in today’s society?

Yes, you have to be obvious with guys.

I think it would be fine, I knew a guy who could never make the first move or text etc so it would of been perfect for him..

unfortunately, thats what this society has come to. but as far as i’m concerned, i’d like a shy guy. that means that they wouldn’t hurt me in any way. they couldn’t go out and flirt with other girls because 1. they probably wouldn’t want to. and 2. they’d be too shy. also, i find it very cute haha..

:D
Ive seen girls who go out with someone who is more shy and sensitive and then end up complaining that they are not..”man enough”. Society is just…weird hehe

But, if you did have someone like that, how would you know how they would react if someone can onto them..

personally, i don’t really care about manliness…if they’re going to treat me with respect, and be completely dorky and random with me, i have no complaints.

and for this situation, i would probably never know. but that doesn’t just go for shy guys, that goes for any guy. they could say they’re trustworthy, but until something like that happens, thats when you find out if your shy guy is a pig, or your player is really trustworthy. people and relationships are trust games of luck. you will always ask yourself, ‘will i be lucky with this guy and give him my trust so he won’t cheat? or will my luck be cut short when my trust for him is damaged?’

I think that girls sometimes mistake manliness for confidence, which is what they’re really after…funny how manliness is often just a cover for a lack of self esteem and an effort to conform to social standards =D