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this should be an easy problem to solve…

and if this is my only problem i’m lucky..and for the most part it is..i have my own house a good job that i can support myself with no drama with past relationships..i’m just lonley
i’m friendly i get out..but nothing happens..i’m starting to feel like one of those little old ladys at the market trying to start confersations at random …i don’t want a relationship (boyfriend ,girlfriend thing) it dosen’t work with me..i just want a few more close friends..everyone i know is busy..
the more i try it seems the more desprate i seem athough i don’t feel that way..
just not sure what to do any more…

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meanowre offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Just relax. And where exactly do you ‘get out’? The bars are good for one-night stands and pick-ups. Bad idea. Clubs/parties that someone you know is going to… slightly better. Join activities. Do something you’ve really wanted to do, but haven’t felt like you could.

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