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I don’t enjoy anything anymore, I hate my physical

appearance, I won’t get a boyfriend because I despise most of the gay people i know, and I don’t see the point anymore.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

What’s wrong with your physical appearance? And you know that cheesy line “you cant love someone else until you love yourself”? well its true lol

Gay bars are ok…I guess if you’re into that “scene” But there are plenty of guys out there…don’t limit yourself to the guys you know…expand your social circle a bit lol

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

gay bars are god awful, dont lie. But yes. Going out and looking always helps.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (6 minutes after post)

PheeGee wrote:
gay bars are god awful, dont lie. But yes. Going out and looking always helps.

LOL I know…its HORRIBLE…ours are full of redneck gay guys…its all good times until they want to show you their gun rack in the back of their pick up truck. *shudder*

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

hahahahahhahaha oh my god that sounds hillarious! Is it a gay and lesbian place or strictly a gay bar?

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9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Gay bars are crap, and you tend to meet the type of guys i really don’t like, the ones who feel they have to act like a stereotype. It all comes down to being a gay metalhead, doesn’t help.
And I just can’t look in the mirror.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (12 minutes after post)

PheeGee wrote:
hahahahahhahaha oh my god that sounds hillarious! Is it a gay and lesbian place or strictly a gay bar?

The one I went to is just a gay bar…the lesbians have their own place down the street. I usually hang out there haha They know how to handle their alcohol.

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Gay bars are crap, and you tend to meet the type of guys i really don’t like, the ones who feel they have to act like a stereotype. It all comes down to being a gay metalhead, doesn’t help.
And I just can’t look in the mirror.

I have a shaved head and listen to Screamo…seriously you aren’t like the only gay metalhead out there =P

How old are you?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

wow, a gay metal head… thats awesome. Youre a rare breed. How are you with internet dating?

forever night you oddball, screamo?

Hahaha Im sooooo resisting the urge to try and get you two together.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I hate my “phisical apperence” too, but We all have to get over that soon, it takes longer for some peoples appearence to change, but if you try it’ll go alot faster. Another thing, try to talk to people you think you might somday like, things might not always be good, but I hope things get better.

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9 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I’m 17, have hair past my shoulders (almost) and I listen to death, black, power and folk metal, as well as grindcore, and thanks :)

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (18 minutes after post)

PheeGee wrote:
wow, a gay metal head… thats awesome. Youre a rare breed. How are you with internet dating?

forever night you oddball, screamo?

Hahaha Im sooooo resisting the urge to try and get you two together.

haha omg…I was seriously thinking about flirting with him but I must control myself since hes 2 years younger than I and that is semi illegal in some states LOL

Anonymous wrote:
I’m 17, have hair past my shoulders (almost) and I listen to death, black, power and folk metal, as well as grindcore, and thanks :)

I listen to the same stuff =D And I used to have long hair until I got tired of girls braiding it lol now its shaved most of the time and I’ve got a few tats + I might be getting snakebites soon =P

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (19 minutes after post)

oh its only two years forever night ( what is your actual name!?) its fine, honest. Youre both physically mature!

….I hope…

lols

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Ha I like in the UK anyway, can’t get tattoos till june. And i’m slihtly creeped out…

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (23 minutes after post)

hahhaha ok. Well, i’ll stop pervily setting you up. Forever night, you have to stop too.

Hmm… maybe try lookign for guys at gigs? You never know.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (23 minutes after post)

LOL he’s slightly creeped out by me..there goes my self confidence ;_;

PheeGee wrote:
oh its only two years forever night

its Justin haha duh! plus, he’s in the UK. everyone lives in the UK ******.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (24 minutes after post)

aww you cant say damit lol how lame

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (25 minutes after post)

omfg i actually already knew that! What the hell…. I forgot XD

Thats cos the UK rocks! oh yeah. hehe.

OMG put an ad in rocksound or kerrang! Hahaha thatd be awesome. You mgiht get perverts though…

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Hmm i think if i tried it on with someone at a gig i’d have bout an 80% chance of getting my head kicked in.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Forever ♦ Night wrote:
aww you cant say damit lol how lame

lol but you can say damit? These filters suck. you can get through them so easy!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (28 minutes after post)

callum4metal wrote:
Hmm i think if i tried it on with someone at a gig i’d have bout an 80% chance of getting my head kicked in.

haha i dont mean hit on them, just smile. It could work…

Oh I dont know. Being a straight girl in this conversation isnt working out too good.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (29 minutes after post)

I’m moving to the UK now and well I don’t know what I’m going to do once I get there but the way it plays out in my mind I will arrive there..meet a nice British guy fall in looooove and live happily ever after. **** yeah!

Kerrang! is a good magazine but mostly all I see is Paramore in it…at least the US version of Kerrang! lol

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Yeah, to be honest I’ve given up on relationships for a while, but it’s taking it’s toll on the ol’ headmentalness, that and the insomnia, (yeah i gots pills)

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (32 minutes after post)

lol I’ve given up on them as well…but that’s only cause I have to worry about school and I cant have anyone holding me back…knowing karma though that whole “love finds you when you aren’t looking” line will come true. -.-

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Ah well, hmm… oh we didnt really address the whole physical appearance thing… Be happy with it hun, im sure ya gorgeous.

Lol justin, if you move to the UK i’ll help you find the gay hot spots if you like. lmao that sounded so much ruder than it was meant to :O

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Thanks, and Justin, stay away from the midlands, because literally nothing happens there, and Brighton and Manchester are where all the annoying gays go, so personally I’d give them a miss.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (39 minutes after post)

PheeGee wrote:
Ah well, hmm… oh we didnt really address the whole physical appearance thing… Be happy with it hun, im sure ya gorgeous.

Lol justin, if you move to the UK i’ll help you find the gay hot spots if you like. lmao that sounded so much ruder than it was meant to :O

Are you sure I wont get beat up for having this weird American accent? D; Its kind of girly mixed with redneck.

callum4metal wrote:
Thanks, and Justin, stay away from the midlands, because literally nothing happens there, and Brighton and Manchester are where all the annoying gays go, so personally I’d give them a miss.

Annoying gays? lol are they like ours? ours throw their hands around and say “omg” 24/7 and they all have pretty nice hair..=/

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (40 minutes after post)

callum4metal wrote:
Thanks, and Justin, stay away from the midlands, because literally nothing happens there, and Brighton and Manchester are where all the annoying gays go, so personally I’d give them a miss.

:O blasphemy!!

Im in the midlands, thats what happens here. Me. How dare you?

:P

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (40 minutes after post)

I’m sorry, but it is ****

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (42 minutes after post)

haha oh snap! for some reason I picture “midlands” as a huge field with huts in them…I don’t know why though…maybe I should google a picture

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (46 minutes after post)

it’s grey and had birmingham and leicester in

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (49 minutes after post)

hahaha well.. I like it, I mean, up north the accents actually make me want to kill things. Down south its just too warm and posh for me. I like my farmery location lol.

here justin, this is my city http://www.theblackpear.co.uk/photos/…
http://www.bbc.co.uk/herefordandworce…

no huts. a fair few fields… mainly sports fields though

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (54 minutes after post)

It looks like a small town…like mine. lol our “downtown” is like a few miles long and then its pretty much houses

This is my “city” it looks big but most of the stores and stuff close down at like 7 pm haha…its pretty lame

http://pics4.city-data.com/cpicc/cfil… (only pic I could find)

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (57 minutes after post)

lol but its quite a tall town by the looks of it. the building in the middle.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

that’s a bank…suntrust lol We also have a star on the mountain surrounding the city…its actually pretty cool but I wouldn’t recommend moving here though, its boring. (this is in Virginia btw lol)

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Anyways, my laptop is dying D=

I shall take my leave of you lol or something…I’m trying to seem “deep”

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

bye bye justin x

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (5 months, 3 weeks after post)

You should probably kill yourself because if you’re gay that means your ****** in the head and need to die anyway. And here’s the thing - I’m not a homophobe and I don’t hate gay people. Its just that in 36 years I have never ever met a gay person who was psychologically balanced.

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An Unknown Location | 1 week, 1 day ago (8 months, 3 weeks after post)

I’m 21, gay and a metalhead from Liverpool. My hair is very long. I like many types of metal death/black/folk/gothic/symphonic etc.

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