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It seems like I have to make up lies to get my friend

to want to hang out with me because if i dont then she usually goes and hangs out with other people and i am scared that she might fade away from me.Am i just jealous or is she going to fade away if i dont hold on?

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ellen.riche offline Verified User (4 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Is it fair to hold on to her so hard if she is drifting due to changes in her life and interests? She means a lot to you, but what do you bring to the relationship?

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Don’t lie to her, she is your friend.

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venomsblade offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (13 minutes after post)

ok this is tough love time . if you have to lie to get her to hang out with you she obviously doesnt want to hang out with you for whatever reason . if she considered you that great a friend you wouldnt have to lie cause she would just want too. so ask her about it (in a cool not needy way like i used to have fun when we used to hang out and i miss it cause we dont as much anymore )if you havent already and if she still does then just move on and find somebody new to hang with

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Doesnt sound like much of a friend… the drifting sounds about right.. sorry! We all go thru it! You will find new friends!

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venomsblade offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (25 minutes after post)

~willard~ wrote:
Doesnt sound like much of a friend… the drifting sounds about right.. sorry! We all go thru it! You will find new friends!

better friends. who have candy

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ellen.riche offline Verified User (4 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 2 months ago (58 minutes after post)

venomsblade wrote:

~willard~ wrote:
Doesnt sound like much of a friend… the drifting sounds about right.. sorry! We all go thru it! You will find new friends!
better friends. who have candy

True Dat :p

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