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So there’s a guy that I have been talking to for a month.

In the beginning we both agreed how we were not looking for anything serious. But as time has gone on there isn’t a day where we are either together or talking on the phone. Recently he tells me how he Likes me alot??? what does that mean. I don’t want to ask in fear I could make a fool of myself when he could be like referring to the best friend card. I do like him but not quite sure how deep that is, but I find it strange for him to tell me this. Maybe I’m just trying to pick it apart too much, just let it ride?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Talk to him directly, As Awkward as this is it works say.. ” ____, What do you honestly see me as?” or Something along those lines.. Then you’ll know if he answers Best Friend then say “Nothing More..?” Just to be sure he wasnt just hiding more awkwardness between you too.. Even if he doesnt think of you as more you seem to have an Awesome Friendship so hold on to that :)!

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9 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Guys aren’t into all those mind games lady folk seem to enjoy. When I tell a girl I like her a lot it usually means that I like her a lot, more than just friends. Then she usually avoids me.

If you want clarification through a game you could always play the “what if game” where you say “What if one day I tried to make out with you?” to which he’ll respond “Rad.” Or something like that.

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