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Ok so im having boyfriend troubles.

so about a week ago my boyfriend and i got in a fight about this guy i had been talking to and used to see. the guy told me he missed me but i didnt day anything bak and my boyfriend thought i was goin to cheat on him. he called me all mad and i told him everything that happened. he said he trusted me. but now it seems like different. he is hetting on my nerves. when ever were together he needs to like hold on to me or something and i just feel like i need my own space. we hang out a lot and dont really do much. i kinda feel like were becoming like one person instead of two separate ppl and its really kinda ugh. i dont want to feel like this but i do……why????

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fcell04 offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Tell your boyfriend that if he cant trust you then the relationship isnt going to work out.

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ScarofLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

You should talk to him and tell him again that you didn’t reply back to that other guy and that you wouldn’t leave him for anyone else. Let him know that it’s bothering you that he’s acting like he needs to “watch you”. If he can’t trust you when you know you did nothing wrong then he doesn’t deserve to be with you.

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8 months, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

well he said he trusted me and i know that he does but its ust different with me like i cant get passed it and idk why. and i do feel guilty about talking to the other guy cuz we were talking but just like hey how are you not like i miss you or anything just talking like friends do. the other guys gf is the one who told m boyfriend we were talking. i dont want to feel like this. like i know i love him and everything but lately he has just been getting on my nerves.

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fcell04 offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

Well he clearly doesnt trust you if he is getting all clingy just because you talked to another guy, even if he is your ex. Say you love him but you also need your space.

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8 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour after post)

wow now that you say that…i do kinda feel like that. hes been gettng more clingy because of it….or maybe i never noticed how clingy he was. but it does seem like that. why do you think i feel like this tho. like when he asked me about the other guy i was so afraid of losing him but now im kinda like …..not that i dont want him but just like i need some space

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fcell04 offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Its like you said you just need your space. I am sure you love your bf very much but if you spend lots of time with anyone they are bound to get annoying. I remember with one of my ex gf’s we worked, slept, had breakfast,lunch and dinner and spent evenings together. After a few months we just got absolutely sick of eachother we used to argue over the stupidest things. However once she left my place of work we got on much better, we just needed to do something away from eachother even if it was just work.

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Anonymous #
8 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

yea i think thats it…thanks a bunch

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