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some of my friends says “every thng happens for a reason” is this true please tell me ?

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Natty offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 379 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Depending on how you see things..yeah
You could think that fate controls everything so it is all planned out, all happening for a reason decided by fate..

You could even say that the reason could be as simple as, you ate because your hungry..the reason being hungry..

How do you see it?

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

so do belive on it

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

well if it does, i want to know Why???What is the purpose of us being here on this Planet???why are we a life and then just die out and something else takes our place.
A very interesting subject ,but there are no answers …

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hrtpain offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

yes i think its true..
its like infinity everything is happen for reason.
we cant even think sometimes. i beleive on that.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Probably not.

The world is cruel and unfair, murderers and rapists run free while first time offenders of possession are spending years in jail; Millions of familys are forced into foreclosure and poverty while CEOs of huge cooperations are richer than ever.

Occasionally you get boned, and there is no rhyme or reason to it. Life sucks sometimes.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

well, i think that evry single thing depend to destany and the things wich r happning to us has a special system

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8 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

There is a reason for everything, but not everything happens because of a reason.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

I think a better way of putting it is cause and effect.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 27 minutes after post)

The universe takes kaos and produces the balance that shapes planets, you are part of that plan and put where you are for a reason, follow coincidences with an open heart and use your mind constructivly, Be free from ego coz where all the same. and let your future take shape with much love & peace X

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 28 minutes after post)

if you believe in God its true..

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Be your own god,

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 30 minutes after post)

and not just a talking monkey

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 30 minutes after post)

uhhh
okay?
sure thing!

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 32 minutes after post)

We have free will, We can choose our future. thats godlike

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 33 minutes after post)

um
you don’t make any sense

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 37 minutes after post)

We create our future with our thoughts, We created our current situation with our choices, if we dont like our life we alone can change things we should see the life we want hold that vision be open to change and follow coincidences as they will lead us to our desires. Firdt we must love ourselves that will allow good things to come our way

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Its a uncommon sense

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Okay, now thats a great point, makes perfect sense.

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 41 minutes after post)

thankyou for bringing it to my attention, i often blame everyone and everything for my problems when the truth is i cause them lol x

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 42 minutes after post)

:)
well, its a common thing to do

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 44 minutes after post)

Did you know the word SIN means Forget

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Didn’t know that, but that could make sense

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 46 minutes after post)

when we remember to take control of our destiny we are forgiven

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 47 minutes after post)

by who?

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 48 minutes after post)

The only one that matters, Your godlike self. you are a goddess its the truth not a line

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 49 minutes after post)

well, everyone is just as important as you and me

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 50 minutes after post)

There is a magic that is an unspeakable truth. and everyone is a pert of you and me we cant love another without first loving ourself

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 51 minutes after post)

very true

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 52 minutes after post)

what dreams do you have for your future? No limits, what are your true desires

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 53 minutes after post)

Like, what i wanna be in life?

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 54 minutes after post)

What do you want out of life

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 54 minutes after post)

How about you answer first :)

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Love

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 56 minutes after post)

same here
doubt it’ll ever happen for me though

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Thats the thought that craetes our current love sittuation. It will come when we least expect from where we least expect and its the one thing we dont get to choose lol

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 59 minutes after post)

yeah, i suppose so

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 2 minutes after post)

I have a girl friend but she hates me

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uvar offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 6 minutes after post)

well you have my email if you want to get married and live happily ever after lol x

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 8 minutes after post)

we met for a reason lol x

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 12 minutes after post)

The Celestine Prophecy Put things in order for me.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (9 hours, 46 minutes after post)

yes it is very true. I acutally questioned that recently too. I didnt even really knew wut it meant either. And on of my friends said “do you believe that everything happens for a reason” and i said “idk” and i questioned him about wut that meant and stuff. And ever since then i found its true. No matter wut the situation is. Even if its the worst thing ever like a parent or friend dieing. There is always a reason. And every since then thats always been my saying and my motto about life. Cause its really true. Think about a time something really really really bad happened to you…. and then think if something good came out of it. It has always been true for me. I got sent to treatment and i thought it was the worst thing ever. but the reason i got sent there was to be re-connected with my life long love with which im with right now. think about wut i am saying and really think about everything that has happened in your life.. it always has a reason

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (5 months after post)

I have slept on the sofa since Christmas, My partners Idea of pillow talk is to say There must be someone out there for me, She tells my friends she would f**k there 15 yr olds brains out if she was ten years younger, And admits she is keeping her options open, She secretly meets Rich men from facebook and has admirers on tagged facebook and msn i am not allowed to know about. Everything happens for a reason, Obviously I have allowed myself to be walked over by being The Nice Guy, but to make this a posotive experience i Must ask myself. How will this help me get to the place i want to be ( in Love ) If Relationships are indeed a numbers game The reason for this relationship is to help me recognize true love when it does come into my life, A soul mate helps you grow, That dosnt mean You dont argue, it means, you will make up or move on a better person more prepared for Love when it arrives, CRAZY BRUNET Obviously I am Joking When i say lets get married, You dont really have my email adress, I have never met you and have no idea what you look like, These things are inportant for passion, We are both simply on the same path lookin for Love and respect, I hope You find what your looking for. I dont hold any recentment for the lady that hates me, I behaved exactly the same way with my ex, i didnt give a s**t till it was over Then i decided to be a Nice Guy (JERK) x

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