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Is it wrong to have feelings for one of my best friends?

I don’t know why but I just have these odd feeling towards her and it’s weird…

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fractal.scatter online Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 248 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

Do you fancy her? Do you find yourself wishing you could hug her goodbye rather than saying ’see ya later’?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

I hug her all the time. I hug everyone. It’s just sometimes we’ll do something random and think ‘…doesn’t this look a bit weird to everyone else?’

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

Does it feel weird to you or her? Is it awkward when you hug? I know I hug people to, but it means just more when you feel that way about someone.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

…The thing that makes it weird is that I’m a girl too…
It’s not awkward hugging her… just weird
We’re really good, We’ve been friends nearly three years. I have others I’ve known just as long who I hang out with just as much if not more but we don’t do the same things as me and this one friend…

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1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

what kinda things do you do which are a bit strange

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fractal.scatter online Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 248 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

Honesty time. And this will pretty much say how you feel. Do you want to kiss her? You know that really strong overwhelming feeling in your tummy that you just want to kiss her.

If you get that then you know your answer. And I think maybe you should think about telling her how you feel?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

Sometimes I do wonder what it would be like to kiss her. That’s part of the reason I’m a tad worried…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
what kinda things do you do which are a bit strange

All sorts of stuff. Mostly when we’re hyper or one of us is sad about something.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

I think it is totally natural

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

It’s a person who you have grown to love and trust - I wouldnt act upon it because I think you already know that might not be appropriate

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

mass wrote:
I think it is totally natural

To feel like pouncing on one of your best mates and sticking your tongue down their throat? It’s natural? Seriously lol

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

Yes actually - love is weird but it is what you do next that is sane

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (32 minutes after post)

Be happy you love your pal - you are lucky to have her. Hug her at every opportunity - at some point someone else will steal your affection so make the best fo now

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 29 minutes after post)

i know how you feel. i have a few friends where if one day we totally just starting making out…. i could probably fall in love with them.. im a girl too.. and their girls… but wut i mean is like i just think well their straight and there is no chance were just friends so ima just have to keep it in my dreams. but i totally know wut ur saying

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