It might be insecurity. i constantly need to be told im doing a good job, a pat on the back at work, i have always needed female companionship since i was about 17 and now im 26, ive had about 8 relationships since 17 going from one to the other. it might just be you need someone to constantly show you attention, or be centre of attention. to feel really important, like your being here isnt a waste of time, a fulfilment that other people can fill a void.
Your young arent you? Some people need affection all the time,others rarely want affection, its all just part of your character trait. Maybe you need to make your life more active, get another passtime, your life is probabally just lacking activity, are you bored?
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j.nuts00 wrote:
Your young arent you? Some people need affection all the time,others rarely want affection, its all just part of your character trait. Maybe you need to make your life more active, get another passtime, your life is probabally just lacking activity, are you bored?
Actualy my life is really busy. I haven’t had a point so far this year that I had nothing to do. Projects, school, discos, school again, competions and so on
yer but all i think u need my young russian is a boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
f’in hell thats the answer to al our problems, it hit me wen i was doin grounds duty, i saw a used comdom, and it triggered the thought.
we will discuss this some day and you will get a guy if its the thing before the
last thing i do, remem the last thing i have to do is kill you…..hehehehe
well if i cantg bebothered to come and find you, it means moving you know….oh the effort!
crazy_is_the_start wrote:
yer but all i think u need my young russian is a boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but do u know how hard it is to find a guy who u will like for who he is and he will like u back
I know just what you need… Christ in your heart… Search for Him… You’ll see a change in your life… that hole you feel will just go away and be replaced with His love for you… Smile! Jesus loves you! =D (I´m sorry if that’s not what you were looking for… but it worked for me… and I just wanted to share it with you…)
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But do u know how hard it is to find a guy who u will like for who he is and he will like u back[/quote]
Ah yes, but you have all the time in the world to find one don’t you?
(Even in about ten years you would still have very good chances)
And such an active life will probably enhance the number of nice persons you meet.
But, quoting Phil Collins: “You can’t hurry love” anyway.
So it’s good to know you’re in a position you don’t need to.
In the meantime you still have your good friends.
Most probably they sometimes need a hug too just like you do.
The good thing is, that if your smart, you’ll be there to give them a good one at the times they most need it. Nothing wrong with personally enjoying the comfort a bit too is there?
And in times when you’re alone, just might just get yourself something big and fluffy. Simple as it may sound, it might just feel good.
My housemate is 28 and also a single female with a busy life (doing a PhD), but realy enjoys having a big (soft) hedgehog in her arms when sitting on the sofa.
(makes her look cute too)
What also might help is to find something to do where you can help other people.
For example homeless, ill or old people or just people you know who need a hand with something. Makes you feel appreciated. Gives a nice warm feeling inside. And at the same time it’s very worthwile on itself.
Now of course these are all just suggestions to help you find some kind of comfort.
Nothing can prevent a person from sometimes feeling lonely. Which is good in a way,
cause it makes personal attention and loving relationships more special if you can long for them.
Nevertheless I hope you find something of use in my post.
All the best.
aliashim wrote:
Ah yes, but you have all the time in the world to find one don’t you?
(Even in about ten years you would still have very good chances)
And such an active life will probably enhance the number of nice persons you meet.
But, quoting Phil Collins: “You can’t hurry love” anyway.
So it’s good to know you’re in a position you don’t need to.
In the meantime you still have your good friends.
Most probably they sometimes need a hug too just like you do.
The good thing is, that if your smart, you’ll be there to give them a good one at the times they most need it. Nothing wrong with personally enjoying the comfort a bit too is there?
And in times when you’re alone, just might just get yourself something big and fluffy. Simple as it may sound, it might just feel good.
My housemate is 28 and also a single female with a busy life (doing a PhD), but realy enjoys having a big (soft) hedgehog in her arms when sitting on the sofa.
(makes her look cute too)
What also might help is to find something to do where you can help other people.
For example homeless, ill or old people or just people you know who need a hand with something. Makes you feel appreciated. Gives a nice warm feeling inside. And at the same time it’s very worthwile on itself.
Now of course these are all just suggestions to help you find some kind of comfort.
Nothing can prevent a person from sometimes feeling lonely. Which is good in a way,
cause it makes personal attention and loving relationships more special if you can long for them.
Nevertheless I hope you find something of use in my post.
All the best.
Thank u for a really good advice :) I hope it will help
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2 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months, 1 week after post)
I wish i could make you feel better …by being next to you…….
Anonymous wrote:
I wish i could make you feel better …by being next to you…….
:) no need to hide I know who u r anyway
and now tht I read through the replies to this post (I forgot this post even existed ^^’) I must say tht zee was right ….. all I need is u and no one else ^_^
❤Natashka❤ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
I wish i could make you feel better …by being next to you…….
:) no need to hide I know who u r anyway
and now tht I read through the replies to this post (I forgot this post even existed ^^’) I must say tht zee was right ….. all I need is u and no one else ^_^
…..really?????
❤Natashka❤ wrote:
all I need is u and no one else ^_^
…you..you mean those words ;)…….you know how happy you make now…….almost feel like crying……..i…i need you too and no one else…..Thts one strong and sweet words you said to me….*hugs*
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