My uncle took it too far today(i live with him and grandparents)

tms323

My uncle took it too far today(i live with him and grandparents)

I’m very weird, and today a had my “Dolls” out(I’m a girl) and left them there to go on the computer and he just threw them into the garbage. So i went to get my beloveds out. As i was putting them away. He snatched them outta my hand! I was dumbfounded, but tried to get them back. He was pushing me and knocking me in my face. I was afraid so i left and went to the other part of the house to get them. So he’s arguing with my grandmother and then he leaves. He’s a hothead, and I’ve always felt like he hated me. Living where I live i have zero confidence and i can’t tell any1 i know. So how do I deal?

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Queenlala64 7 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Tell ur grandparents how u feel. Let them know he hurt you. (if he did) How old is he?

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

How old are you?

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

families can be the hardest people to deal with. We need to know more about your situation. Why do you live with your grandparents, how old are you and your uncle, is this doll situation something you tangle about a lot. Was he just having a bad day. People stuck together in something as small as a house you are bound to trip on each other once in a while. fill us in

rcorley85 2 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

talk to your grandmother, it sounds like she knows what is going on. She may know his point of veiw of this conflict, or maybe she can find out when things calm down. try to stay out of his way, including your dolls.

tms323 0 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Well, I’m 14 and he’s 30. He’s always angry about something. Today it was myself and my grandfather. He said we were acting weird(i didn’t understand what he meant). And just used my dolls to vent on his anger. This isn’t the first time he targets me and my doll obsession. It happens a lot. I’ve felt boxed in ever since he moved in. My life has always been rough but I’m a person who is smart enough to overcome these trials and tribulations. But He… is ruining my brain

tms323 0 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Its weird becasue he disrespects my grandmother and she seems to not care, but its not happening with me. I have a backbone. I will stand up for myself and I just don’t get this situation.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

dear, try t relax and not take things to heart.

hes not worth it.

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rcorley85 2 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

well dear sweet 14 is a wonderful age. no 30 year old fella wants to live with mom and dad again. Sounds like he is going through some tough times, and the way the economy is we all need a little help. For a man, who is feeling frustrated, angry and sometimes violent outbursts are the way they cope. I’m married and have two sons. Men really do come from mars. They are wired way different than us girls are. My guess is he just has some heavy things on his shoulders, and you and your dolls were the only thing close enough to kick around. Could be that your grandma understands the way men behave a little better than you do, i think maybe she is just giving him some space to figure himself out again, and sometimes that takes a long time. You shouldn’t have to take it, yes i feel he owes you and apology, and maybe one day you’ll get it, but untill then i would just stay out of his way. He’s not ready to cope yet.

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