Love help: Ex unresponsive, I dont think she wants me anymore, - Help.com

Time to move on.

Shepherd wrote:
Time to move on.

agreed

ahem.. I didn’t read anything past this
“Ex unresponsive, I don’t think she wants me anymore”

Precisely she is your EX if she wanted you she wouldn’t be your EX… need anyone say anymore?

Keep your chin up. You have obviously come through alot and should be proud of yourself. You need to concentrate on what is going to make you happy, not rely on a memory. Memories have a funny way of letting you down…. Good Luck!

Is their any chance you could still be friends?

NO.. NO FIENDS. not if your not over her, you need to stay away from her and stop thinking about her. it will take a while, i still think about a girl that cheated on and then dumped me and i still feel something for her. but im over her i know i dont want her anymore, you will get there eventually,

You are delusional if you think she will come back to you. She won’t, she made it clear. Move on mate, a new life is waiting for you to be discovered.

Just to add to what everyone else has said here really. She’s not your friend. She’s your ex for a reason and obviously she still has that reason to be your ex (whatever it is). So yeah; take some time to learn to live without her and just start to live your own life for you again.

I”m really sorry to hear how feel, but my first reaction was the same as Joshy - she’s an Ex for a reason. If she’s ignoring calls, she still wants to be an ex.

Doesn’t sound like you can move on as friends so Time to move on, period, I think … Good luck with it. May not be what you want, but you can’t change it.

Sorry, just repeated you fractal - my comp v slow this eve. Really, it was the comp…

Mcfly? Did you she’s your ex? Most exes are our exes because number one we don’t want them or number two they don’t want us! Move on Mcfly!

*Mcfly? Did you SAY she’s your ex?

Yeah these folk are speaking sense, friends was probly a bad idea. Do what you got to do East move on…..

littlenick wrote:
Mcfly? Did you she’s your ex? Most exes are our exes because number one we don’t want them or number two they don’t want us! Move on Mcfly!

Most~ true; All~ not so true. Some Loves circumstance drives apart or there is unresolve passions that destroy lovers and others around them, such is the case in Wuthering Heights and this guys, sorry, your story East sound more like this scenario…..

Not because you or her didn’t want one another in your lives its just so much has changed and you both grown and probably know however much you long for it that its not good for either of you.

easttowes wrote:
probably i’ve mostly been living in delusion these last few months trying to get myself prepped up to try again, yeah im pretty sure she has no long term devices on me. your all probably right i should just stop speaking to her. will be hard but what else can you do. lost a true friend (amongst other things) have to find another i guess.

If she wants to start speaking to you, she’ll contact you.

Just don’t wait around for that to happen - get on with your life, stay off the coke and move forward positively. Who knows what will happen in the future? You’re more likely to meet true friends if you take care of yourself and grab life with a smile on your face:)

She was never a part of you. Unless you were actually siamese twins and theres something you aren’t telling us here….(you can laugh later) but seriously you obviously have great qualities you’re just not letting them shine right now because of worrying about all the above……

No, she brought out the great part of you what you already had and have. You just have to find it now yourself and build your new life on it.

beatricegalant wrote:
No, she brought out the great part of you what you already had and have. You just have to find it now yourself and build your new life on it.

I agree

Island wrote:

beatricegalant wrote:
No, she brought out the great part of you what you already had and have. You just have to find it now yourself and build your new life on it.

I agree

Thats what I said but in my own unique way…….

Sometime when you were out doing a line she fell out of love, hence the “ex”… she’s not falling back in. Good for her.

Here is how i see it. when two people that love each other very much, but eventually get sick to the back teeth of one another and cant stand to be in the same room never mind the same bed as each other. it is inevitable unless both are as stupid as each other and deny everything…

She is gone, shes gone becuase she didn’t like being with you. no matter how good you were you just weren’t for her. she is gone.. she isn’t coming back and no woman in her right mind would go near you with a twenty foot pole when your sniveling about your ex. if you want to be happy forget about her.

easttowes wrote:
but dr ralph you did meet your soulmate online (hoho) and she rejected you. so never mind your in the same boat, apart from im not in the pathetic internet dating section of the arc

thats low…