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why is it that all the nice people on earth are available only online?

? is it tat tuf to be nice in person? do ppl need anonymity to be good?? i really don understand this… loads of ppl i meed in help forums are nice.. why is it tat i cant meet such ppl in my school or work or anywhere else for tat matter??

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 288 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

I think it’s cause the ‘nice people’ don’t shove themselves in your face as much as the attention seeking ones. Maybe not as harsh at that but you know what I mean :P

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WHATABIGNICKNAM offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
GB | 8 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

but do you think your a nice person

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onemoreday. offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

@fractal
yeah true… they are the ones who elude us all the time….

@what
i dunno whether i can be called nice.. but i don think i’m evil :)

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anomonous offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

Maybe because some of the ‘nice’ people may not be as outspoken and in real life they might be scared to interfere incase of rejection if that makes sense? Whereas online they can have more confidence and if there not wanted somewhere they can get off the forum etc.

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Quantum_Spirit offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

The real answer is the correlation between online chat and personality. People who disregard the feelings of others tend to care little for mingling with the online society. They’re often the people who flame blogs or sites because they feel someone’s been “disrespcted” or just plain get off by causing havoc. The truth is many of these people aren’t necessarily bad people ( though some are ) they jut have different priorities in life that don’t include you. And you should take solace when realizing that many people do care and are readily available to help online, like me = )

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Meow... offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 179 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (48 minutes after post)

Nice people usually arent the ones in the center of everything. Reality sometimes kills niceness. And it is easy being nice on the internet, much easier than being nice in person. And maybe you cant meet them because youre looking in the wrong places…

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onemoreday. offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

so what would count as the ‘right’ place :)

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Quantum_Spirit offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 day after post)

A library is a good place.

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 288 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 day after post)

Quantum_Spirit wrote:
A library is a good place.

Lol. Except you’re not aloud to speak to them.
Shhhh!
:P

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Meow... offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 179 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

onemoreday. wrote:
so what would count as the ‘right’ place :)

You meet nice people unexpectedly (I spelt it wrong, right?) They come when youre not looking. Im sure you will find some nice friends soon!

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 288 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Miiau wrote:
unexpectedly (I spelt it wrong, right?)

Na-ah.

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Meow... offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 179 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

fractal.scatter wrote:

Miiau wrote:
unexpectedly (I spelt it wrong, right?)

Na-ah.

Yay! My spelling is improoving :D

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 288 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Miiau wrote:

fractal.scatter wrote:
Miiau wrote:
unexpectedly (I spelt it wrong, right?)

Na-ah.

Yay! My spelling is improoving :D

Lol.

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