One of my guy friends has a crush on me, and I’m already dating someone that I really really like, maybe even love? - Help.com

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One of my guy friends has a crush on me, and I’m already dating someone that I really really like, maybe even love?

but theres a catch to this; I also like my other guy friend.
Help.

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kathrynkurs offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I love posts where people say I may love my bf or I love my bf but I like someone else. Those two things never honestly go together, here is why. When you love someone you cannot like someone else, it’s impossible. I am inlove with my bf and can never image or even think about being with someone else or like someone else. If you really really like your current than stay with him, one little crush shouldn’t come in between your feelings for your bf. See now you have to decide for yourself, is it worth liking someone else or maybe even leaving your current for your guy friend? If no, leave your crush and your feelings and move on.

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BrokenDreams. offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Yes I know, but also, the other kid is trying to break me and my boyfriend up.
But I’ve told my boyfriend about that, and I keep switching my feelings.
It’s starting to stress me out.
And also the other kid told me that he likes someone else, but I can tell that he does like me.

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kathrynkurs offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

smile954 wrote:
Yes I know, but also, the other kid is trying to break me and my boyfriend up.
But I’ve told my boyfriend about that, and I keep switching my feelings.
It’s starting to stress me out.
And also the other kid told me that he likes someone else, but I can tell that he does like me.

Jealousy is a sick pleasure. Well here’s what I do when I am in that type of situation. Grab a piece of paper, write both guy names, write both cons and pros ( what you like and what you don’t like ) and how you think it will effect both relationships if you go for one guy or the other. Read over the list and figure out which one suits you more emotionally and psychically (sp?).

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Loveable offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

I think you should follow your heart, if you like your boyfriend more then stay with him, but if you like friend more go with him..

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Okay thanks.
But I really don’t want to break my boyfriends heart.
I’ve seen him go through a ‘depressed’ stage before, and it killed me.
I don’t think I could bare it.
But also, the other kid, usually never talks to me. So it’s kinda hard to believe he likes me..

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Loveable offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Like I said, follow your heart…

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