Birth control help: how do i act like im taking my birthcontrol in front of my mom? - Help.com

why do you want to fake taking your birth control? If you don’t need it then why would your mom want you to take it? if you do need it why don’t you want to take it? do you want to get pregnant or something? I’m confused

i’am in the same postion so i under stand ive been wanting a baby but if you don’t think you can afford a baby your self why bring a baby into this mixed up world???
your the mother or will be its your turn to make the right desision your parents may not want a new baby but if you want them to pay for it then don’t have one get a job find out how the adult and mother hood life is

I cannot tell you how against getting pregnant young and having other people pay for you and your child. But I can also sympathize with the desire to have a child. I’ll give you an example,

I have wanted a child since I was 17 but I also want my child to have a house, to have two parents that can fully support the child and be able to buy the child toys and good food, I am against other people taking care of me but that’s not to say I will not accept help when I need it. Having a child is hard, its a life changing decision, its wonderful and hard and can even be depressing at times. (And when I think about it, it’s selfish to want to bring a child into a world of welfare purposly)

But I also have a friend who has wanted a child since she was 16, she was forced to have an abortion (which I dont agree with, the fact she was forced anyways) and had been trying to get pregnant for a while, she is on welfare and is living in her boyfriends apartment, who is also not the father because the father wanted nothing to do with a child. Generally men need time to have fun, **** up, and grow up, as do us females. Anyways, she has a child now, is still on welfare, she was just able to get her grade 12 and is working part time at a subway. She doesnt regret it, but she has to be on welfare to support her child and is lucky she has a supportive boyfriend and that his mother is supportive of his decisions.

I can tell you that from her trying to get pregnant and how many boyfriends she had and how many ran away or even were forced away from her by their parents, that she will have a hard life ahead of her. She is really lucky her child wasn’t born with any dysfunction or abnormality as is too common with babies born by people under the age of 20.

I am not saying that your a horrible person if you decide to have a child but I’m also not saying that its a good decision. All I will ask is you make a list and think.

How many people are you going to have around you that will support you?
Will the child have a stable father?
Do you have a nice place and atmosphere for the child?
How much money will you need?
Can you afford to feed and clothe yourself and the child?
Can you afford daycare, nannies and medical treatments if the child gets ill?
Have you talked to someone who is not a friend or a parent? like a counselor

With a lot of things it comes down to money. Just please remember that you need more than just your mother to support you.

“It is impossible to raise a child by yourself, it takes a whole village to raise a child”