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How long should I wait…

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Ok..so I met this girl online and she lives in city far from mine.

She is intersted in having a relationship, but she is not yet shown me her pic or given me her number( All I have is her gmaild Id).

We have been chatting for a week now and till now she has come out as genuine to me.

My question is, how long should I wait for her to show me her pic?

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renegade72 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (1 minute after post)

honest suggestion would be to forget and go meet a nice girl in person rather than over the googles. Try your local coffee shop or popular hangouts to find a suitable female

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Ankit 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (2 minutes after post)

renegade72 wrote:
honest suggestion would be to forget and go meet a nice girl in person rather than over the googles. Try your local coffee shop or popular hangouts to find a suitable female

This is a good suggestion..but i am not good at reaching out to girls in actual world.

renegade72 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (5 minutes after post)

just be natural, the only thing holding you back is yourself

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Ankit 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (6 minutes after post)

renegade72 wrote:
just be natural, the only thing holding you back is yourself

Point taken..but still..if i have to wait for this internet girl tos hwo up..how logn should i wait?

renegade72 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (9 minutes after post)

i wouldnt waste your time with said “internet girl” your probubly setting yourself up for disappointment

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REA #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (15 minutes after post)

that will be up to her… we don’t know if she is secretive about her appearance.

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renegade72 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (16 minutes after post)

what if shes like….not a she?

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roboticdragon 0 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (22 minutes after post)

It’s only been a week, man. At this point, she’s likely uncomfortable with her appearance and not entirely comfortable with you. Have you sent her a pic of yourself, yet? Try asking her.

If she won’t give it right away after you ask, then just keep chatting. Don’t pressure her into showing her pic or she might just think that’s the only thing you care about. Try even sending an email. You can say a lot more in an email than you can in a chat window.

Get in the habit of the email stuff and eventually, you two may be talking on the phone. And maybe, if things work out, you two can actually get together.

Anonymous #
8 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

Dude trust me, get that pic as soon as possible, in fact I suggest you guys video chat (thats an option on Gmail.

You never know,
she could be lying about how she looks,
or her age,
or her gender…

I agree its better to meet someone in real life, people on the internet are wackos, after all look at me :D

spongebob 4 #
Stockton-on-Tees, N3, GB | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

you should just ask her to show you a pic and if she says no then she might have something to hide.

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Ankit 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

good news

i finally decided to leave that *******.

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