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very recently my boyfriend broke up with me.

He broke up with me and I all of a sudden have the erge to commit suicide. What should I do?

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

You want to kill yourself just because your boyfriend broke up with you? That’s a bummer. Just move on with your life. Pretty soon you will get over him.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

well I have had my heart broken twice. And now all I do is mope and not smile. But once I get a new boyfriend he breaks up with me and break’s up with me and I get broken into pieces. I hate my life now and I don’t ever want to hook up with anyone anymore. I want to sit in a corner and kill myself

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Maybe tell yourself, he just wasn’t the right one for you. It’s better to find out now than after a long, long time of commiting yourself.

You are going through rehearsals with different boyfriends until your soulmate comes into your life. Just keep going, there is nothing that happens in life that warrants taking your life.

Your soulmate is out there and you will never have the chance to meet him if you don’t wait. It isn’t easy going after what will make you happy, be able to experience joy, and share your life with someone who really, really cares about you.

Apparently is will take a lot longer then you originally thought it would. My aunt used to say to me “You have to kiss a log of frogs before you find a real prince.” Hope this helps.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

First, do you really think that suicide is the answer? You should think about all the people that love you and will be affected by your decision.. Life is to short for you to worry about an ex that left you… Your to good for him..

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An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I think you should take a break from having a boyfriend for a while. Try to find out the nice things you have been missing by being by yourself for a while. Sometimes we all need some solitude to gather our thoughts and reorganize our lives to make it better.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Sorry, I misspelled a word “You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a real prince.”

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

aahhh…so you see, now you know twice over what you DONT want in your prince… you are so much closer to finding one without the flaws that the first two had!

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

but i really thought this guy was going to be my love forever.

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An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

How old are you?

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

I know, but again he just wasn’t right you need some one who will be there for you. I agree with LittleNick’s reply in that you need to take some time to be by yourself. Also take the time to nurture yourself, go places and do things with friends it’s the best way to lift up your spirits.

Sometimes when we go into a relationship and we know they aren’t exactly right and we think we can change them and they feel the same way about us. We really talk ourselves into the relationship and we settle because we weren’t patient enough to keep looking. It’s a learning curve that we all must endure.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

I’m 13 year’s old

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

You have your whole life ahead of you. Doing things and going places, finding out all about yourself, what you want to do with your life. Finishing school, having fun with your friends, it’s a little too soon for you to be even considering a long term relationship with Mr. Right.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

yeah i guess your right.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

I have to go But thank you for your advise.!

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8 months, 2 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Baby girl your so young you have so much going for yourself. you will fine your true love. this is just puppy love.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

13 ha ha what a drama queen chill out before you grow into a bunny boiler,tell your parents about this,how your feeling and hopefully theyl give you some good advice

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