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I have nobody to talk to, nobody who will try to understand or who cares to understand (this has gone on for years).
Trying to go through life alone is hard and I’m really hurting right now. Please help me.
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whats wrong? we are here to talk :)
Wanna talk to us?
I know how you feel; I am kind of in the same boat.
I try to get help or have someone to alk to but others seem to self involved to notice my crisis.
How can I help you?
I can listen if you want someone to talk to and you never know I may have advice that would help..
Thank you for your replies.
I’m feeling very sad. I’m in medical school and just haven’t been working at my full potential and haven’t been doing as well as I hoped. I think I would be doing better if I had emotional support but all my life there has never been anyone there for me who cared or tried to understand me. Without that I crumble. Yes, I’ve gotten to med school by myself but it’s been difficult. And now I feel like my chances at a good training program are next to nil because of what’s going on in my personal life.
I think you have done really well to get to where you are now and it is all about trusting yourself and believeing you can do something; I know it is horrible to feel like you have no one around for you but don’t give up on yourself yet!
You may meet someone in time that will be a solid rock for you like what you think you need and you would be kicking yourself for letting things go now.
That’s the thing…I feel like I’ve already let things go, especially this past year. There are so many pressures put on us and I have been awful at coping with them and as a result have not done very well on exams recently. It’s so hard to turn things around right now. My motivation is lacking and the lack of structure for studying is difficult for me. And these are the grades that matter, not the earlier grades where I did better. It’s frustrating and makes me feel like I’m not cut out for this career. I don’t know how much is that and how much of it is actually me not being happy because maybe this isn’t what I should be doing with my life.
You are the only one that knows what you want out of life but it does sound like you are trying to blame things on others rather than taking charge.
If you don’t have anyone or support then I am sorry but you can’t let that rule your life.
I don’t have anyone that I can reply on but I don’t let my life grind to a hault.
Yes I do like to complain about that fact once in a while but you have to move forward.
Ask your tutors what you can do; there has to be some kind of help you can get be it exra tutition or advice on what you should do next.
I know that I want to be happy. I’ve experienced that in fleeting moments. Those times I’m engaged in great meaningful conversation or enjoying a hearty laugh with people I care about. In terms of career I know I want something challenging with a mix of working with patients and doing research.
I’m not trying to blame this on others, although my parents being there for me at every level except emotionally was difficult growing up. Parental acceptance for a child is key to a healthy self-esteem and I don’t have that luxury. I’m just trying to learn how to not let other people affect me so much, especially my parents. I’m willing to learn but I don’t have the information. Believe me, I’m obviously moving forward. How else do you think I’ve gotten to this point? And I don’t have any tutors and there is no help at school either for this kind of thing. Thanks anyway.
Glad to hear you are trying to move on; there must be some kind of support somewhere.
What are your steps for moving forward?
Have you come to any conclusion yet?
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