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my gf is apparently grounded for like a year and I barely talk to her…

and when I do it’s just all messed up because I’m depressed now and she’s pissed off for some reason…she says she doesn’t know why. It all just seems like a way of getting me outa her life. I just wish someone was here with me…just take my hand and take me away…distract me…do something…
In my head I’m thinking about smashing the stuff that surround me…
I need someone to take me away and show me some happy…

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mike_jj changed the tags on this post: they were "sad, depressed, lonely" 7 months, 2 weeks ago.

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taylor-1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

For 1 year omg what the hell did she do kill a dog..!

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mike_jj offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

it’s probly a bunch of things…I don’t know…

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taylor-1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

i really dont know what to say you could ask her parents if you are allowed to hang out with her for like an hour or so…

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mike_jj offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

couldn’t work…her parents don’t want me to be her bf

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taylor-1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

awrr thats kinda sad

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mike_jj offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

yeah…the problem is I don’t have fun…

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taylor-1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

i wonder if she will still like year in one year tym..?

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taylor-1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

i wonder if she will still like you in one year tym

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mike_jj offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

I dont know…she sneaks on to talk to me sometimes but it’s not enough. I an’t show her how I feel about her…she knows already…but w/e i don’t know.
Right now all I want is someone to make me get off my lazy *** and go have some fun lol…but I don’t really have any friends and I’m shy.

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mx22_ offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

u should take other chance with her dont be afraid from trying

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mike_jj offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

ive taken more then one chance with her, and every time i got let down. We are still together but it feels like we are breaking up…like you know how people say in a relationship your breaking up for half of it…or something like that. It feels like she’s slowly losing interest in me.
She was the girl that made me feel more happier then I’ve ever been in my life time. She’s my dream girl (because i dream about her all the time lol). She’s too busy to talk to me most of the time and now that she’s grounded we will barely get to talk. I’m just so…i don’t know…I just want to be with her so bad.

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Axel2801 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (3 days after post)

If you care for her that much then you have to show her all of it. Do anything to show her and her parents that you’ll never leave her in every way possible.

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