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Things are unlikely to progress any further than they already have - now would seem to be the time to meet…

Being grounded for a year, especially without cause is just a tad harsh don’t you think? ;) - i think its much more likely she doesn’t want to tell you… Or in worst case she’s making excuses

Ultimately, you have to meet… - do you think it can continue like this?

(yes, i’m deliberately ignoring the warning signs)

Um…

How old did you say she was?

Uhoh :(

Well, man..we all tend to think we have found THE one. YOur going to find the one 9-100 times in your life. If i may be frank for a sec, it sounds like shes avoiding a break up. Plus, its a long distance relationship, thats a tough tough situation. It also sounds like your the older one. Hint: young girls are gonna party, and party hard. If you think that shes going to be sad while shes trying to have fun think again. Also love is unconditional my bro you should always want her to be happy, no matter who, or where she is. Much love and much luck to u.

oh dear boy, i’ve been there. all you can do now is wait. if things are sliping away you can’t keep trying to grasp the unatainable. even though at this moment you probably wish you could jump into her and promise somehow someway you’ll make everyting alright.

oh, no thats okay. pay me no mind.. ;)

of course i was right. you also probably feel like your on the edge of the worst time of your life and the only reason you continue to pull yourelf together is because she is making you feel worthwhile.

this can’t be how you live, your setting yourself up for a nasty fall. you can’t sit and wonder when she will start wanting you again. try with all of your might but this is out of your hands.

Yes, to keep her haha. You have to always be prepared to let go no matter how hard it hurts.

hmm, how old are the both of you?

mike_jj wrote:
im 21 (I really don’t act my age), she’s 16.
Do girls and guys do that?…prepare there self mentally for the break up before they actually go through with it.

I figured it was something like that :(

i don’t know about every oneelse, but i do. you can’t get to attached being so young. if you want any chance of it working out, and i mean really working out then go to her. shes probably already letting go because in her mind she knows she can’t be with you without being near you. all a girl wants is to love and be loved, emotionaly and physicaly. your her platonic love, and until you both meet she’ll be letting go more with eac coming day.

Oh my dear boy don’t fret. Every window i not an escape; every building a prison. Times have changed, you can’t allow yourelf to go on like this anymore. The more you think about it you’ll start to sink; it will feel like a ball and chain around your waist.

lay alone on the grass and drink in the stars; instead of laying alone on your bed and wondering when the day will be over. :)

It was never real to start with, and she just wants to end it and move on in her life…

i understand you feel so powerless against this love you have for her, and more than likely it is because you haven’t loved this way before. you can get by without her, and you have to because sooner or later you’ll be faced with letting go and whether you like the idea or not, you’ll have to.

with everything going on one can’t help but feel unnoticed. am i invisible? you ask. you begin to feel jealous of everyone that gets to see/have her. and yet you dont understand why you dont get to have her. why?

it wasn’t meant to be.

oh, darling please listen. don’t let this be your downfall.

i am sorry.

your only solution is to see her.

Commander Ikari wrote:
It was never real to start with, and she just wants to end it and move on in her life…

I for one agree with Ikari.

you very welcome, i hope all goes well and that we continue to keep in touch if you ever need help in the near future.

My apologies :(

but hell thats life for you.

mike_jj wrote:
Lets say I meet her…I would be extremely nervous. Should I like figure out what i want to say before I go? Should I bring her a teddy bear with a lil poem…I don’t know.

Considering the age diffrence buying her toys, you might come off as a pedo…

no offence.

oh, how lovely!

mike_jj wrote:
Lets say I meet her…I would be extremely nervous. Should I like figure out what i want to say before I go? Should I bring her a teddy bear with a lil poem…I don’t know.

nope - take yourself - and if you have it - cash for a proper date - i.e meal/drinks etc

and good luck!