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fletcher

Please,

I hope I read some words that I don’t immediately dismiss. I feel worthless enough to very much want to die, again, I’m not going to attempt anything, I’m much stronger than that, but the emotional hurt is distressing and inferring with my day to day functioning. I’m about to try to go to sleep. There has been a cycle the last year or so where I meet someone, and I fall in love with them and build them up in my mind as the ideal, and it isn’t make believe, from experience when I’ve had someone, I’ve actually found happiness and the solidarity that I’m always seeking. Anyway.. Help? How do I feel like life is worth living without having to have someone else as the sole reason to want to be alive for? When I try to convince myself to do things for me, the best thing to do for me seems to be to have someone else. Tell me something I need to hear.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

Hey you, what is going on here? It is not clear we should discuss this on a public forum.

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (30 minutes after post)

then when you see one of those people, instead of building it up go and try to talk to them and have a relationship of some sort

it sounds like it would be good for you to try

and you will find someone to love you as much as you love them in due time, but you have to try to meet people if you want that to happen

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (32 minutes after post)

While having another person join you in a quest for happiness is wonderful, you need to make sure that you are also happy on your own. You can’t possibly love somebody else if you don’t love yourself first. It’s like if somebody asks to borrow eggs. They may be nice, and I may want to share, If there are none in my fridge, I can’t share.

Do things to make yourself feel good about your own life. Work really hard att one test, one hobby, one chore. Do as good as you can. That way, you can be proud of yourself for it. Every day think about how good it felt to accomplish something so nice. Try a second annd a third third to do well at.

Eventually you will feel good about a number of things and you will have happiness on your own. When you do, you will be able to share it with another person.
:)

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

Hello Fletcher?
This is my last answer at help.com. And today I am cancelling my account.
Because day by day I feel that words cannot reach people`s heart so much.
So I decided to show them answers they want in life by my life. I live in a calm country called Mongolia. A few minutes ago I was studying maths to get scholarship
to study in Japan. You will hear about me in the future- an architecture from mongolia who started “Universal Garden” project. To think back of my life, all my dreams came true,but one. The one is to be her boyfriend. The only girl whom I loved in this planet earth misunderstood me. I want to prove her that I love life. It is 2 years since she left me. Even if she hates me all her life, I will continue living my life. Even if she goes away and never comes back, I will still be serving people, feeling life to its very root. Cause she gave me the meaning to exist, to live. It`s that love which gave the power to overcome aloneness. It`s those tears which made my life so beauiful. I will be grateful for all my life to the person whom I loved.
I cannot help you. I am so sorry. I know nothing about life. But I do know that life is worth living. I cannot explain it. But my life can explain it.
Bye all!

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

letst wrote:
Hello Fletcher?
This is my last answer at help.com. And today I am cancelling my account.
Because day by day I feel that words cannot reach people`s heart so much.
So I decided to show them answers they want in life by my life. I live in a calm country called Mongolia. A few minutes ago I was studying maths to get scholarship
to study in Japan. You will hear about me in the future- an architecture from mongolia who started “Universal Garden” project. To think back of my life, all my dreams came true,but one. The one is to be her boyfriend. The only girl whom I loved in this planet earth misunderstood me. I want to prove her that I love life. It is 2 years since she left me. Even if she hates me all her life, I will continue living my life. Even if she goes away and never comes back, I will still be serving people, feeling life to its very root. Cause she gave me the meaning to exist, to live. It`s that love which gave the power to overcome aloneness. It`s those tears which made my life so beauiful. I will be grateful for all my life to the person whom I loved.
I cannot help you. I am so sorry. I know nothing about life. But I do know that life is worth living. I cannot explain it. But my life can explain it.
Bye all!

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (2 hours, 2 minutes after post)

It sounds to me like you have the heart of a servant!

How loved you are!

fletcher 1 #
AU | 4 years, 1 month ago (6 hours, 44 minutes after post)

letst wrote:
Hello Fletcher?
This is my last answer at help.com. And today I am cancelling my account.
Because day by day I feel that words cannot reach people`s heart so much.
So I decided to show them answers they want in life by my life. I live in a calm country called Mongolia. A few minutes ago I was studying maths to get scholarship
to study in Japan. You will hear about me in the future- an architecture from mongolia who started “Universal Garden” project. To think back of my life, all my dreams came true,but one. The one is to be her boyfriend. The only girl whom I loved in this planet earth misunderstood me. I want to prove her that I love life. It is 2 years since she left me. Even if she hates me all her life, I will continue living my life. Even if she goes away and never comes back, I will still be serving people, feeling life to its very root. Cause she gave me the meaning to exist, to live. It`s that love which gave the power to overcome aloneness. It`s those tears which made my life so beauiful. I will be grateful for all my life to the person whom I loved.
I cannot help you. I am so sorry. I know nothing about life. But I do know that life is worth living. I cannot explain it. But my life can explain it.
Bye all!

Thank you.

I’ll listen for the Universal Garden project by the architect from Mongolia :)

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