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So I was dating this guy for a few months when all

of a sudden like two days ago, I wake up and log onto myspace (of all the places) and he’s changed his status to single and he’s written bulletins about some other girl who “he’s so in love with” already. I dont’ think he met her but like, the other day.

I didn’t even get a break up. He never really broke up with me. He just avoided me all day long and then finally… finally responded to a message. I would’ve taken a phone call over finding out that way. That was low.

How can people just do this? I dont’ understand how people can just do this.
I’m sorry. I’m venting.

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An Undisclosed Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Sorry; that isn’t nice at all.

Maybe he just didn’t like confrontation or didn’t have a specific reason or know how about how to end a relationship?

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

I just feel like I should’ve gotten at the very least a phone call. A two minute phone call would’ve been ten times better.
He pretty much said that he was scared. I don’t remember exact words.. But at 20, you should have a little bit of guts, no?

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

well atleast you can move on with your life now. just pity that other girl. or even better, message this other girl and warn her.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

Breaking up is hard to do. He is a coward and couldn’t face you and tell you the truth. Think of him as a lesser form of life than human and it will all be good. Be glad to be rid of him, you were the honest one and he was a coward.

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