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im humiliated.

i slept over my best friends house with another friend. then the next day me and my best friends boyfriends came over.. theyre twins. they were there for a couple hours then i had to leave. i told my parents bout my bf wen i got home and they were ok with it. a half hour later he wanted to go on a 2 week break to hook up with other ppl. see if he liked them if not then hed come back to me. i found out shortly after that wen i left he asked my friend out. now theyre goin out. i have to see her all day tomoro at schooland i wanna kill her. my best friend didnt try to stop it and didnt wanna get in the middle. she said that im a terrible person cause i was tryin to get my “friend” to break up with him. i got two hours of sleep on top of over 10 hours of crying. i dont know what to do..

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emmybean offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

hes a flippin loser. you should have gotten the hint when he mentioned the whole “give me two weeks”. hes not worth the tears no matter how much you “love” him. what hurts them even worse is when you go back to school and laugh it off. make the one girl feel bad. give her your congrats. its that thing about us girls, were so darn good about hiding our feelings. just put on a smile.

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

I agree with emmybean, just hold your head high and act like it’s no big deal. It’s like getting rid of bad baggage, your glad to have him out of your life. He’s a user and a loser. Move on, you deserve better.

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xxokatelynoxx offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

i dont go to his school though. i go to his new gf’s skool.. he broke up with me the day before our 4 month. and then after she comes and says how she doesnt wanna lose me as a friend so i asked her why she would do that then. she said she was tired and it just kinda answerered. but she made out wit him and stuf before he asked her out and she broke up with her bf that she ****** twice 7 hours before. i need him in my life. he was my first real bf. he was my first everything.

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xxokatelynoxx offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

and my best friend and “friend” (his new gf.) are goin over his house today. on whats supposed to be our 4 month..

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emmybean offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

he obviously didn’t feel the same way. so like i said, not worth it. ok here a way to look at it, say you play with this adorable puppy every day. well one day this adorable puppy bites your hand off. is it still adorable and would you still play with it?
AND this girl seem to me like a player. she’ll get tired of him soon and move on, which by then he’ll move back to you. BUT i’ll leave it up to you to be a real woman and turn him down. find a man who will treat you right.

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xxokatelynoxx offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

hes the best ive ever gotten and i cant get any guys. so im single for a while i ges.

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

I know how very sad you feel but try to realize that the time involved was 4 months. It could have been a longer time than that and he would’ve broken your heart. He is a heart breaker. He doesn’t even realize the pain he has cost you and your friendship with your friend. Most DECENT guys would’ve have been up front with you and came out with the whole scoop right away but no, he has to do it this way.

Dear, you will be so much better off without him. These challenges in life are just rehearsals for the real meaningful relationship that is waiting out there for you. Your soul mate will come along..and he won’t ever treat you the way that this guy has.

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