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I hate my family.

I’m young. 16 to be exact. I have three god awful embarrassing abominations to the human race as my half-siblings. I’ve been raised under my mom and stepdad since I was 7.

He’s not my father but I’ve called him dad my whole life. My mom says it’s because he tries to be the best father he can be for me, but I don’t care. I would love my life a lot more if I could talk to my biological father every now and then. I miss him, we rarely talk. He’s one of the coolest people I know, and I’ve only spent time with him like, thrice in my life.

My mom has a lot of issues. She’s bipolar, miserable, and also embarrassing. Despite this, I love her to death- in fact, she’s the only one in my family whom I actually respect and admire. The rest of them are all burdens to me. I feel like a real jerk the way I treat her, it’s just become a bit of a habit to be mean. Not too mean, but not the best son. I wish she knew how much I really do appreciate her. She isn’t fond of my father either- they had one divorce and recently got remarried, but already trouble is brewing. She felt so unloved the other day she actually came into my room and thanked me for loving her. That was tough, and it shows how big of a jerk my “dad” is.

Then there’s the siblings, the biggest ******* annoyances on the planet. They destroy the house. They don’t stop eating. They lack any basic form of respect. They hurt animals because of their inadequate knowledge of life. They are truly stupid. They lack social skills. They humiliate me whenever I am around them and I am ashamed to call them my half-siblings. I know I should love them, but I don’t. Not even a little. I feel kind of bad, but I’m coming clean, that’s the truth. They’ve just caused me so much ****, and every day they destroy my room, or do twenty hundred things to annoy me.

Put all this misery into one household. That’s where I am stuck. A hellhole of demonic rage personified into several extremely miserable people. I hate my family, and I just want to run away and not come back. The only thing keeping me from doing that is my mom, I do love her.

I hate the rest of ‘em.

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aecir #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (4 minutes after post)

sup?

sup?

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emmybean 5 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (4 minutes after post)

treat THEM like dirt. i am the youngest of 4. i let my sibs walk all over me when i was younger. i was always afraid of them. now that we are all grown up they want to make peace with me. i don’t. atleast im not ready too. i can’t help being mean. i deserve it.

treat THEM like dirt. i am the youngest of 4. i let my sibs walk all over me when i was younger. i was always afraid of them. now that we are all grown up they want to make peace with me. i don't. atleast im not ready too. i can't help being mean. i deserve it.

Help me with: im just wondering …… ok so my sisters mother in law decided to show up to my sisters for my nieces 2nd birthday.

dimmingstar1376 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

a. treat your mother a bit better. tell how u feel about your half family and your biological father if your comfortable with that. b. try to set some boundaries if that doesn’t or hasn’t work fight back

call family meeting or something. you may be a mixed family but you do things your way and they do things theres draw a line. make yourself heard in this tough situation and being nicer to you mother and telling her how u feel about the “family” might make her make some decisions of her own like talk to your step father and make him control his biological kidsbest wishes

a. treat your mother a bit better. tell how u feel about your half family and your biological father if your comfortable with that. b. try to set some boundaries if that doesn't or hasn't work fight back call family meeting or something. you may be a mixed family but you do things your way and they do things theres draw a line. make yourself heard in this tough situation and being nicer to you mother and telling her how u feel about the "family" might make her make some decisions of her own like talk to your step father and make him control his biological kidsbest wishes

gamerkc 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (2 hours, 36 minutes after post)

Thanks for the help.

Thanks for the help.

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