friendship help: My best friend used to be obese, and I have always been thin and in great shape. - Help.com

My best friend used to be obese, and I have always been thin and in great shape.

During the last year or so though, he started working out and eating healthier has lost it all. He has dropped something like 10 jeans sizes and i have gone up four. Now we kinda switched and I don’t like it. Everyone comments on his weight loss and a few people comment on me. This is so not the way it should be. How do I deal with this? How did this happen? Ayways
I’m a guy it’s weird whatever, and I just posted a similar
question but people have been dropping comments lately and my bathing
suit seems tight. I had a similar question on before so honest answers please im 6′2″ , guess my weight? Does it really make me look bad/unattractive? Or are people just trying to make me feel self conscious?

http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j25...

http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j25...

http://i76.photobucket.com/albums/j25...

be brutal and honest, thanks and any suggestions?

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bibby toes :D offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (12 minutes after post)

i duno like 200 or something but anyway just start exercising man your not that bad i bet within 2 months of some exercising you would start to notice a drastic change in the way you look

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An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (55 minutes after post)

ok will do

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8 months ago (3 hours, 36 minutes after post)

I don’t think you look bad at all, I suggest buying a bigger swimsuit. the one you have on looks uncomfortable and tight.

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