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Hello Blueflames!
How are ya? Oh yes, that’s right, you’re doing great! Well, good for you!
Point #1: When I was a child, I use to fall asleep with a smile on my face. And I remember that I was thinking to myself how ridiculous that was as I was trying to get it off of there. But as I was starting to fall asleep again, it came right back on like it was totally out of my control! LOL Do you think that’s weird?
You’re just happy Blueflames and that is just great! :)
Point #2: About those depressing thoughts of an eventual split-up with your girlfriend? Don’t even think about it. It could happen. Or you could get married and live together for a long long time. Or you might split up but remain excredibly close friends. Don’t worry about it. You’re doing great. Just follow your dreams, stay happy and the future will take care of itself.
#3: I experience those things that you described here. At some times in my life they were more frequent, sometimes less… It can come and go. But keep listening to your feelings. It seems to me like they will guide you very well. Intuition develops over time and you will find at some point that you will be able to be receptive at will, turning on or off your sensitivity to certain people or situations. So much we don’t have enough knowledge of. Life is mysterious and wonderful!
And #4: Cailean? Yep! He left at some point. I’m not sure what happened. Couldn’t help you much with that. If you’d like to contact him, maybe you should see if he had made his e-mail available to you on his profile page. Either that or shout people that are still on his friends list to try and find out more. I liked him too. But I think when he left, he was possibly in need of a break. Hope he’s doing well…
:)
Marylou invited 1 user to read this post 8 months ago.
Marylou wrote:
Hello Blueflames!
How are ya? Oh yes, that’s right, you’re doing great! Well, good for you!
Point #1: When I was a child, I use to fall asleep with a smile on my face. And I remember that I was thinking to myself how ridiculous that was as I was trying to get it off of there. But as I was starting to fall asleep again, it came right back on like it was totally out of my control! LOL Do you think that’s weird?
You’re just happy Blueflames and that is just great! :)
Point #2: About those depressing thoughts of an eventual split-up with your girlfriend? Don’t even think about it. It could happen. Or you could get married and live together for a long long time. Or you might split up but remain excredibly close friends. Don’t worry about it. You’re doing great. Just follow your dreams, stay happy and the future will take care of itself.
#3: I experience those things that you described here. At some times in my life they were more frequent, sometimes less… It can come and go. But keep listening to your feelings. It seems to me like they will guide you very well. Intuition develops over time and you will find at some point that you will be able to be receptive at will, turning on or off your sensitivity to certain people or situations. So much we don’t have enough knowledge of. Life is mysterious and wonderful!
And #4: Cailean? Yep! He left at some point. I’m not sure what happened. Couldn’t help you much with that. If you’d like to contact him, maybe you should see if he had made his e-mail available to you on his profile page. Either that or shout people that are still on his friends list to try and find out more. I liked him too. But I think when he left, he was possibly in need of a break. Hope he’s doing well…
:)
hey marylou :)
thanks for responding :) how are you??
1. well the thing is i normally dont smile when I’m just walking in the halls, so its kinda strange to me..
2. well I’m kind of her first boyfriend, so at some point, she’ll kinda have to see some other guys right??
3. turning it off and on would be great!! ill hafta trust you know more than i do.. :)
4. I cant even find his profile anymore, it disappeard from my friends list :(.. I know that when he came here it was because he had a partial knee replacement and couldn’t work.. but a goodbye post wooda been nice after all he had done here..
THANKS!
Hey Flames, I’m doing quite alright today!
About your girlfriend… you’d be surprised. Some couples meet when they are very young and are lucky enough to connect in a way that lasts through the years!
Didn’t happen to me but I know that it happens! :)
About Cailean, here’s his profile page: http://help.com/user/244717-closed
I do believe he took everyone off his friends list before he left though. If you want, I could write him an e-mail and tell him you would like to contact him. Not sure if he will answer but we used to exchange e-mails at some point.
Is your e-mail address accessible to me? I think mine is available to you from my profile page if ever you need it…
:)
marylou:
thanks :) somehow it seems like common sense that she would want to see some other people before marrying someone, but i dont know..
I’d hate for you to go to all the trouble to try to contact him as I really don’t have a ton to say, other than that I’m wondering how he’s doing, and how his knee’s been.. we kind of had knee surgery at about the same time so we were both on here with knee problems.. :) I don’t think my email is accesible to you, because I don’t really know how to set it up.. : /.. that and I’ve gotten a new email address that I mainly use since making an account here…
thanks again :)
No problem Bluflames! Well anyways, my e-mail is available to you. At least you know that much now! LOL
Have a great evening, day or night depending on where you find yourself.
Ciao! Catch you later! :)
Hi Blu, thanks for the invite:) Good to hear you again and it’s great you’re happy. A lot of people left a while back whn they change the site…the chat part isn’t the same and we all move along to other things. I only pop in briefly now too, because of my work shedule. Take care…later:)
Why see other people when the person you are with is perfect for you? What about the commitment you guys have? Would you want to see other people?
I just placed those questions up there cause It will give you some contrast and help you think. I really like you man, you are a good guy, and I really hope you are happy and you keep being happy with your girl. Remember that love is really shown when it’s all going down the gutter but you still want to be with this person. It’s commitment, not feelings, that will guide you through those rough times. And about going out with other people, that’s just a social thing.
Did you know that there is an statistic that shows that people that have had many relationships are less likely to stay married?
#1. i would take it as.. you are finding that you are truly happy with your situation with your girlfriend.. what you have with her is amazing and you find yourself really happy…
#2. this is a discussion that you need to talk to her about. being that you guys are in high school this is a very good possibility of happening and often does sadly. another sad part about being in high school and not to burst your bubble is… relationships rarely work out forever… as you both grow into different people as you get older and you guys both learn to like different things as you get older.. eventually growing apart… sad but true.. its a way of life.. but as for the part of the college thing… i would talk to her and let her know that you had a thought about it and you were wondering what you guys would do about it… talking will help ease your thoughts..
#3. these are premonitions and they arent gone forever, they will come back… i promise.. i too have these happen.. in dreams.. or even sitting here writing to you… my eyes could be wide opened.. and yet everything will go pure black, a vision will flash through and i will see something happen and with in the time between now and tomorrow it will happen.. it looks almost like an old film, black and white and it moves extremely fast… they come and they go as they please and there is no controlling them… but i can tell you. they will come back..
#4. as for cailean, not to go into full details as i do not want to get banned, he has deleted his account and erased all his friends from it. not sure if he has opened another account or not… but as for the cailean one.. it is gone.
Max wrote:
Hi Blu, thanks for the invite:) Good to hear you again and it’s great you’re happy. A lot of people left a while back whn they change the site…the chat part isn’t the same and we all move along to other things. I only pop in briefly now too, because of my work shedule. Take care…later:)
hey max thanks for coming :) how have you been??
Yeah, the changes that the site had really bug me.. like refreshing the page?? and no automatic tagging?? and no new notices for posts you can help in?? very annoying..
ChavyWasabi wrote:
Why see other people when the person you are with is perfect for you? What about the commitment you guys have? Would you want to see other people?
I just placed those questions up there cause It will give you some contrast and help you think. I really like you man, you are a good guy, and I really hope you are happy and you keep being happy with your girl. Remember that love is really shown when it’s all going down the gutter but you still want to be with this person. It’s commitment, not feelings, that will guide you through those rough times. And about going out with other people, that’s just a social thing.
Did you know that there is an statistic that shows that people that have had many relationships are less likely to stay married?
hey chavy, thanks for coming :)
i really dont want to see anyone else, and she has said she doesnt want to either..
its just that, being in high school, it seems unlikely that we will stay together…
i didnt know abou the statistic though, that makes sense though :)
~Shie~ wrote:
#1. i would take it as.. you are finding that you are truly happy with your situation with your girlfriend.. what you have with her is amazing and you find yourself really happy…
#2. this is a discussion that you need to talk to her about. being that you guys are in high school this is a very good possibility of happening and often does sadly. another sad part about being in high school and not to burst your bubble is… relationships rarely work out forever… as you both grow into different people as you get older and you guys both learn to like different things as you get older.. eventually growing apart… sad but true.. its a way of life.. but as for the part of the college thing… i would talk to her and let her know that you had a thought about it and you were wondering what you guys would do about it… talking will help ease your thoughts..
#3. these are premonitions and they arent gone forever, they will come back… i promise.. i too have these happen.. in dreams.. or even sitting here writing to you… my eyes could be wide opened.. and yet everything will go pure black, a vision will flash through and i will see something happen and with in the time between now and tomorrow it will happen.. it looks almost like an old film, black and white and it moves extremely fast… they come and they go as they please and there is no controlling them… but i can tell you. they will come back..
#4. as for cailean, not to go into full details as i do not want to get banned, he has deleted his account and erased all his friends from it. not sure if he has opened another account or not… but as for the cailean one.. it is gone.
hey thanks shie :)
how have you been??
umm…. what should i talk to her about concerning college?? i didnt really get that.. :/ and i know that odds are it wont last forever, im just kind of wishing it would right now…
im glad they’ll come back, i just wish i could choose when they show up..
wow, is it that bad that you would get banned?? did he do something?? sorry, i dont want to pressure you for anything, im curious though…
bluflames, it’s nice to hear you’re doing well, it’s been ages!!! :]
1. it seems you’re incredibly happy
2. you know most people in highschool don’t have that realization, the fact that you do shows how very mature you are. things happen for a reason.. and you ever heard of a thing called highschool sweethearts?? Anything’s possible.
3. It’s funny you should mention this, I experience this as well, it’s just a tad different for me in some ways.. but it seems like everytime I get so close to controlling when it happens and with who I experience this, it leaves me for quite sometime, but always returns when I least expect it. So, don’t even wonder about it anymore.. it’ll come back when you least expect it, too.
4. I remember cailean.. I don’t know why he was deleted?? :/
olivia christine wrote:
bluflames, it’s nice to hear you’re doing well, it’s been ages!!! :]
1. it seems you’re incredibly happy
2. you know most people in highschool don’t have that realization, the fact that you do shows how very mature you are. things happen for a reason.. and you ever heard of a thing called highschool sweethearts?? Anything’s possible.
3. It’s funny you should mention this, I experience this as well, it’s just a tad different for me in some ways.. but it seems like everytime I get so close to controlling when it happens and with who I experience this, it leaves me for quite sometime, but always returns when I least expect it. So, don’t even wonder about it anymore.. it’ll come back when you least expect it, too.
4. I remember cailean.. I don’t know why he was deleted?? :/
hey olivia :) thanks for coming :)
i know, im trying to be here more often, but it doesnt seem like theres much to do any more because i dont get notices for posts other than the ones ive visited!! :)
1. im not normally very happy though, so it’s kind of new to me..
2. i have heard of highschool sweethearts, but was never sure of like an exact definition.. BUT, with me being her very first boyfriend it seems all the more unlikely.. : /
3. yeah, i guess you and shie were right about them coming back.. yesterday in the hall i was talking to my girlfriend, and she said her throat hurt. about right then i knew i wouldnt be able to see her today(saturday), when we would normally hang out. i dont know why i knew, but i did. last night she said her throat was fine, but today its really bad and i cant see her.. :( but i knew.. yay!
4. yeah, he seems to have left without a trace, except for shie, who knows what happened but wont share!! :)
Why don’t you tell her: “I want to be with you forever”
Is this what you want?
ChavyWasabi wrote:
Why don’t you tell her: “I want to be with you forever”
Is this what you want?
umm…i think so, but im 15, what do i know?? and theres plenty of time for her or me to change, and i wouldnt want to say that if i might have to take it back at some point.. not to mention it could really freak her out…
I’m here.
Read all the posts.
Can’t think of what to say exactly other than,
“Awwwww. ^^ That’s so cute.” to you having a girlfriend.
Bahah. ((:
.ashley[INDIAN.BOB wrote:
]I’m here.
Read all the posts.
Can’t think of what to say exactly other than,
“Awwwww. ^^ That’s so cute.” to you having a girlfriend.
Bahah. ((:
lq2m…you read all the posts?? thanks for coming :).. its ok if thats all you can think of saying, a lot of girls would.. :)
ChavyWasabi
~Shie~
AshleyAnemia. (: