text help: Should the boyfriend in your relationship text/call the girlfriend first? - Help.com

I dont really think it matters.. I mean if its just a nice text its fine

That sounds like some kind of protocol…kind of silly. Its not a game, its a relationship. It shouldn’t matter who does what first.

well iv actually been thinkin that lately. iv been seein this girl and weve kissed, gone out and done all that but it just seems like i’m always the one starting the convos. I always text her or call her first and idk if this is normal. I really like her but i’m not gonna lie it would be nice if she would start the conversation sometimes just so i can be sure she actually likes me :P

velvettundr wrote:
well iv actually been thinkin that lately. iv been seein this girl and weve kissed, gone out and done all that but it just seems like i’m always the one starting the convos. I always text her or call her first and idk if this is normal. I really like her but i’m not gonna lie it would be nice if she would start the conversation sometimes just so i can be sure she actually likes me :P

Tell her that! She probably isn’t aware of how it makes you feel. I used to do that to my boyfriend and when he told me how it came across I was a little shocked but I saw his point.

Or shes possibly loving all the texts and is attempting to “play the game”. How old is she?

I want to but at the same time weve only been seeing eachother for a while and she’s not my gf yet :P But thats a good idea! if we get to a more legit relationship i might just do that :)

Oooo… I would cut back a little on the texting than… gotta take it slow with girls. How many texts a day you got going here? Distance makes the heart grow fonder, as they say.

Yeah thats what i’m doing, usually after i send her a text she continues the convo but you’re right i think i am over doing it a little